Paying for high end Escorts?

I myself don't care what people do with their money or time as long nobody is getting hurt.

When it comes to paying for sex there are several outlets, a lot of them involving illegal immigrants usually from Asia.

Then there's drug addicts in the streets.

But there's also a lighter side to prostitution.

High end private escorts who charge $300 and up.

I have a friend who's a bit of a rich kid and he's been going to these women about once a month for some years now.

I was engaged for a while that ended several months ago. Afterwards I dated a few women or tried to.

The last 3 months I've gone to a few strip clubs with some friends and eventually got one of these high priced escorts.

I've thought about it from time to time and I don't find anything wrong with it frankly. I know many people say paying for sex is paying for sex and there's no difference but I disagree on many levels.

Firstly, few things in life are free, I believe sex is rarely " free " especially in my age group ( I'm 22 ) guys often have to " provide " for their girlfriend in numerous ways, whether it's driving them or paying for food or event or gifts, etc. That's obviously a small part for a lot of relationships but I know my fair share of goldiggers who are milking my friends, and my buddies know this but always laugh it off by saying they at least have a warm body to sleep with every night.

I think a lot of it is emotional commitment. To be in a real relationship you have to develop feelings for a person, etc.

As bad as it may sound, both men and women just want to fuck sometimes.

Now with high end escorts, you will usually get a fairly attractive women who smells nice, keeps clean and knows how to make you comfortable. I've only been with one but as I said a friend of mine who recommended a girl told me stories of his many experiences. These women often have only one appointment a day and usually work a maximum of 20 days a month, you do the math and with all that tax free income they will pretty well. Obviously they can make even more depending on how long they are with their client, and how desperate he is, ie, fat guys.

I think it's far better for a guy to see these type of women once once a month or once every couple months while looking for a real relationship.

This way a guy can avoid the major problem of forcing sex on a girl he really cares about just because he's a little backed up, if you catch my drift.

There's a couple guys I know who are just drinking buddies I watch sports with sometimes who said it didn't make a difference and they would never pay for something they can get for free.

Now I know a little bit about them and how they sometimes in my opinion exploit drunk girls at parties or go after girls who have insecurities.

I what they do better?

I know the one time I've employed the services of an escort she was gorgeous, made me feel really comfortable and let me off some steam as I haven't been with a woman in a few months sexually.

Since then I've been more like minded to get dates with women and talk than constantly think about fucking them.

Does anyone here agree with my train of thought?

 

i don't see why it would be a problem. i've considered it in the past but never went through with it before.

 

Here in the UK a former high end escort who wrote a blog and books has just gone public. It has provoked discussion about the merits of prostitution and issues such as trafficking and who is in the right or wrong (should the man or woman be criminalised, or no-one).

 

I've actually considered becoming an escort. I love sex and the money seems good, however I'm never quite sure if I should. There's the issue of what services id b expected 2 offer. And the kind of man who visits...

Any ideas or comments?

 

If you're working for a respectable agency, you are expected to offer handjob, blowjob and vaginal if the client wants it, you get paid by the hour and it is very strict for the customer, you call when you get there to tell the agency you arrived safe and you leave on the hour. If the client asks you to stay he gets charged for the next hour even if he uses only 10 minutes.

The agency usually takes a third of your cut, so if they're charging $200, you actually make around $130, and you have to pay tax on it.

I have heard and come across escorts who do their work privately, it takes a lot more dedication and effort so to speak but basically there are college girls who "be-friend" men they are comfortable with that have low prospects with the ladies, and offer to bed or blowjob for a certain amount, you get it 100% and tax free.

I mean if you approached some loner and got friendly with him and basically got to the point of telling him how much you would cost and get him on the regular basis you could make money from that guy monthly.

Professional escorts teand to know the trade more so it's less awkward and if you go to the right agencies they are just gorgeous. Plus they are very safe about their practise.

My advice would be to look up escort agencies in your area, see what they would be giving you at an hour and ask them if they allow you to refuse clients, most do, just not at a high rate. If you're visiting say 10 clients a week and you come across 1 or 2 you refuse to be with, you probably would get away with it, but if you refuse like half of the bookings you'd probably get fired.

If you're good with your words you can probably get away with just giving handjobs or blowjobs and not actual sex, in fact from what I've been told and from my friends, a lot of escorts beat around the bush on having sex with their clients, and get away with it. Especially if they are very shy and unnattractive.

I mean let's say you get called up to a house, most agencies have drivers so you get driven to a place, come up and a guy answers the door, you immediately call the agency and tell them you've arrived and the clock starts running. If you're good you can try and make small talk, maybe offer to undress the man slowly, tell him to put on a condom, then if he continues to be silent give him a handjob, if you're lucky he might explode in a minute and the rest of the time will be spent on talking, or he'll request to touch you, but you just tell him not to touch you where you don't want.

All in all most of the clients are lonely men, sometimes rich guys who will get you for a long time to have dinner with them and talk.

As long as you're okay with having to have sex if it is requested and for however long the man takes, it is a good option, because as mentioned above you'll probably get a lot of easy time.

 

This can be a lot of fun, especially when it's a very nice restaurant. A lot of those guys are really nice, especially the older ones.

Or so I've heard, anyway.

 

Dude, you gotta be a fagot to pay for a high-end escort. Just get a regular hooker.

 

Yeah, if you don't care much about safe sex practices or basic hygiene, and you don't mind taking a risk on soliciting an undercover officer.

 

YOU would know!

 

lol. $300 is NOT high end.

 

What do you mean by that?

 

Haha. What kind of clever comeback will I pop up on ninjas next? You will never know.

 

$300 isn't high end, but it helps to stay away from those looking for a quick buck because those are the desperate ones which means they'll be less likely to care about safety.

I would know because I've been to one, once and they bring condoms and they have 'regulars' so it is generally safer if you choose to go to one.

 

Considering most Escort agencies charge $200 and they take 30% of the escort's money $300 is at least above average.

Which I would call high end, above average, in technicals, 100% above average.

And these are hourly rates, for again, independent escorts.

I suppose the more elite ones are the ones that charges $600 for 2 hours minimum but I can't afford that, lol.

In Amsterdamn the average prostitute charges 50E, that is what I would call low end.

 

There are hookers charge $5000 a night, FYI. $200 is actually minimum, with the exception of crack whores.

 

I agree with the original poster to this thread. Sometimes people just wanna fuck. Awhile back a friend of mine told me about this local website that has an "escort" section on it. He proceeded to tell me that he's hired a few girls off the site and they were fantastic. I had never done anything like it before and figured it would be an experience and something I could mark off my bucket list. So, I checked into it.

I'm kind of in the same boat as he is/was...not having any intimate female contact for months on end. This past weekend I plopped down $200 for a local "escort" I found on said website. I got an hour for the $200 because I called her at 3AM on a Friday night/Saturday morning after coming back from the bar and not getting the time of day from any girls there.

The sex was eh decent and not worth the $200 I paid I think, but it was all I could get at that hour in a pinch, so fuck it. It wasn't smashing by any means because I could tell she wasn't really into it and that she was just there to make money. Which I guess is fine since the whole aspect of the escort thing is for you to have fun and think about yourself for once.

Now I'm hooked like a meth fiend. I'm going to make a goal to hire an escort at least once a month now or once every 2 months, like the original posters rich friend, only I'm not rich by any means and taking that $200 out of my account the other night sure did do a number on my bank account and my forthcoming bills. But oh well, I got laid.

 

I would not want to have sex with someone who wasn't into it, doesn't sound to appealing to me.

I think sex should involve both parties wanting to be there.

Why don't you just find a massage place that does happy endings or something, that would be better as a simple massage even without the happy ending, is much more intimate contact with another than picking up someone for sex.

 

I've been considering hiring an escort. I got laid off awhile back because of medical issues. I don't get out much..and let's face it what girl wants to date a guy that has no job?

I have some money saved and quite frankly I need/want to get laid.

Problem is I live in an area where I haven't had much luck finding escorts near me.

And a lot of sites you come across want you to register (i.e. pay) in order to be able to even contact the escorts.

If anyone knows of any sites I'd be very grateful (i'm in the eastern shore area of Maryland)..if it's against ToS here then a private message would be great.

and don't bother with the insults. I ignore childishness

 

OneLifeForm , I agree. Normally I don't have sex with someone who isn't into it, but this was a shot in the dark of random proportions. It probably had something to do with me calling her up at 3:30AM as well. Hookers need sleep too.

dmorris , I'm in the same boat you are. Unemployed. And you're right, what girl wants to date a guy with no job? I mean, maybe 1 or 2 but I'm not into pillheads.

 

Before I met my wife I went through a bad stretch where I kept going back to a woman who kept promising me we'd be together only to dump me again after a few months. This went on for over a year and I was a total mess.

I wanted sex but was too confused and damaged to try and date or start another relationship and I never had the skill set (or the looks) to pick up a woman in a bar (or didn't want to fuck any of the women I could get).

Therefore I answered an add for an Escort. The girl was a very pretty italian/ hispanic mix with a slim body, green eyes and dark hair. She was an independent who ran her business out of her apt bldg, where she lived with her 2 y.o. daughter. I began seeing her weekly which at $ 200 (1995) was putting me in bad financial straits. I actually thought I was falling in love with her. She let me wipe her pussy with handkerchief and I kept it with me throughout the week. Eventually she started giving me blowjobs without a condom. Basically we did a lot of 69 and of course fucking; missionary, cowgirl and doggy style. When we did it doggy she would reach between her legs and grab my balls while I was fucking her. I always had a nice time with her and sometimes sent her flowers as a thank you. Eventually I ran out of money and had to stop seeing her and about 3 months later I met my current wife. I occasionally wonder what happened to her and her daughter and if she ever left the business. I hope she is ok today.