Thought I'd ask around and see what other people do to stop a fight or bickering. My ways don't always work. Of course, I can't send a funny picture of an lolcat in person either. If I could, ALL my fights would be stopped! :love:
if the person is a reasonable human being, explain your position to them so that it can't logically be argued against. if the person is like 99.999% of people, just stop talking and walk away because logic means nothing.
Use the magic word---why? When you ask someone WHY they feel the way they do--they'll have to give you a reasonable answer by defining their position or their position will fall apart before your very eyes.
Stop being a twat who argues...? Simple as that, really. It takes two to argue. Just don't argue. Employ an understanding and listening stance to let the other person empty their tank, at which point they normally calm down. Then discuss their gripes in a rational fashion, not trying to make counter points or oppose any views. When you have listened sufficiently and they feel better for it, they will be more receptive and calm in regards to your grievances, which you can express in a serene fashion without the need for bickering. It really is very simple. Just communicate properly.
