So Ive been in relationships with girls for the past ten years and I am attracted to them. Ive always been interested in guys too but always told myself I'd never act on it. I dont know what got into me but a couple weeks ago I hooked up with a guy I met through craigslist personals. Then the next day another guy. Then a few days later another guy. Then last night ANOTHER guy. So within the last couple weeks Ive had sex with 4 guys. Am I crazy? Do you know how dangerous/risky it is to meet random strangers looking for sex on the internet? I should, but I think thats what made it exciting. The guy from last night was really cool and we've decided to become friends. He was like me, a newbie wanting to try it out. Now that Ive found a friend, I can experiment and explore without risking getting murdered by a weirdo from the internet.. Lol Anyone else have an experience like this?
You probably do have more of a chance getting murdered by a random stranger walking alone at night, or if you are British walking the streets of Totenham in the last week But seriously, work on sharpening the skills in real life, through the internet its just random, where as walking up to and talking to the hot guy in the supermarket, you can window shop Its easier than you think once you start, any guy not thinking that way is going to be like "Why are you talking to me?", Or if he starts talking about shit, like footy or Halo then straight but just friendly, any guy not into you will just be snotty. Whereas one up for it will give you some eye work
If He Lives In London He Doesn't Need To Window Shop.......Just Find Something In A Window You Want.....Smash It..... Then Loot It...... Problem Solved...:2thumbsup: Cheers Glen.
Craig's is pretty much as risky as everything else in life: driving, eating, playing sports, etc. You want to adopt the positive attitude here: you are being reasonable about it. You are meeting people in public, letting them know that your friends know that you are meeting someone up..., etc. Sure, things CAN go wrong, and at times, they do... Which is no reason for anyone to start living in a nuclear shelter... Have fun and enjoy your life. Do not cross certain lines... KD
On Sunday I had another session with my new friend and it was amazing. So much passion and excitement. I dont know if it was the best sex I ever had but it was up there. I can't stop thinking about it & wanting more. Maybe tomorrow we'll get together again.
Doesn't sound like a problem, you're just having fun I had sex with three different people last week, and two of them again this week I don't feel guilty, I just feel satisfied!
no, you're not crazy. good for you, you should be out there doing things you want and love. sure, it can be a little risky getting together with guys on the internet, but it's still the same risk hooking up with any stranger at the bar. if you want to play it perfectly safe you shouldn't go out with anyone who isn't a close personal friend. there will always be a degree of risk involved in most everything. and, no, i've never hooked up with someone over the internet. good luck to you.
I presume with such a euphoric, upbeat and sexual experience of 4 guys you had the foresight to don a party-hat — not for your head, at the risk of mentioning the obvious in terms of STD and worse. Did you check out the guys' bona fides and history? Clean as they may look, but...