What does faith have to do with not masturbating or watching porn? Wouldn't a person of faith understand that our bodies were created by that very entity in which they have faith--to enjoy those very endeavers? Otherwise,wouldn't they be impossible? I guess the realities of murders,wars,famine,diseases,etc, affecting humanity could also be attributed to that selfsame entity, which for those who have faith, must be considered. Doubt he/she/it could care less if you beat off some,considering. It's your life--don't waste it.
Good god, what is so effing hard about having an open communication line with your partner?? If you can't talk to the person you're supposed to be spending the rest of your life with then why the hell did you get married? Just my 2 cents. And no, I'm not condoning getting a divorce just because they can't communicate about sex, I'm simply saying people should seriously think about their relationship BEFORE they get married.