What Am I Doing Wrong?

Okay so clearly, I'm a beginner at this. I tried masturbating a few times but literally got no where. Felt around inside a bit with my fingers and all that. It felt good for maybe 20 seconds and that's it. I've been looking up tips on how to do it but I must be stupid or something. Also, I tried with the detachable shower head. Same thing, really good feeling for 20 seconds or so and that's it. It's really frustrating! Can someone help me or tell me what I'm doing wrong and what I should be doing right?

 

well first off it doesn't sound right if you can stick your fingers in your penis

 

I'm a girl....

 

well i would hope not. masturbation is not meant to be a means of conveyance.

 

Not being female, I can only offer a guess, which would be that your expectations are too high and you're not relaxed. Try not to focus on what you're getting out of it and just explore. Spend some time outside and focus on your clitoris. Don't worry about what is and isn't happening, and just enjoy the experience.

 

you know you would think it would come natural but I Guess not huh

 

I would say not so much fingers in but more just rubbing. your clit, make sure you are nice and horny before u start And you are feeling sexy

 

Take a joke...

 

Don't just use the shower head alone, rub your clit with one of your fingers at the same time.

 

Focus on your clit.

 

well that's just silly..everyone knows girls don't masturbate

 

why is it such a big secret that a girl masturbates i dont see the big deal

its like a big secret

 

Try a cucumber.