Need tips on having sex for the first time

I have not told her I'm a virgin so I need to look like I know what I'm doing.

Also some things you should know is that she is a bit self conscious, she wears a shirt to bed and so I'm not sure if I should take it off for her anyway. She also definitely doesn't like giving oral sex but I'm not sure about receiving it.

So my options are kind of limited on what I can do before the actual sex. Any tips?

 

Don't just thrust in and out, use a bit of variation in your hip movements, circular wise, vertically and horizontally. If you pay attention then you will see what she likes the most and you could keep diong that more than anything else. You could even ask her what she wants or what she likes.

Personally, I've found that girls like it when you push their ankles up towards their head to change the angle of penetration. There's plenty of reading you can do on the internet that's probably better than what most of us can offer you here.

Do plenty of foreplay, that's touching with your hands and with your mouth. Stimulate her clit and the bit between her clit and her hole if your fingers are outside for a good reaction. With your fingers inside, you are best off doing a "come hither" gesture whilst pumping your arm up and down a bit to stimulate the best areas. Keep mixing it up but don't be afraid to stick to one technique if she obviously likes it.

For performing oral on her, some girls will be driven wild by eye contact while you're doing it. Tease a lot when it comes to oral, seems to make it so much better for them. If your neck gets a bit tired then suck on her clit in quick kissing motions so that it goes in and out past your lips quite fast, I haven't met a girl yet that doesn't like that and it will give your neck a rest.

Always listen to her body, that always tells you what you are doing wrong and what you are doing right, even if she won't tell you with her voice.

I know that was kind of brief but I just tried to keep to the fundamentals, since every girl is different. Any questions?

 

All good points so far. Superseding all of them how ever is this timeless truth:

- Don't put it in the wrong hole. :2thumbsup:

 

there is no wrong hole..

 

Only wrong people.

And wrong things to put in those holes.

 

Slap her about a bit and call her Andrew.

 

Be sure to play a Cher album.

That's crucial

 

pretend your a viking.

 

Make sure you pick a pretty actor's face to paste on your paper bag.

 

how about cher???

 

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= killer combo

 

Selling your first gun is a lot like your first time having sex. You dont know what your doing, but it is exciting and one way or another it will be over to fast. - Lord of War

Why not tell her your a virgin. To be honest with you, unless you have mastered your "abilities" you probably will be a 60 second lay. My advice would be to tell her it would be your first time. Plenty of foreplay. And see if she will get you off in the foreplay. After you get off, spend some time getting her off while you get hard again, if you can. Hopefully spending time giving to her more will get you hard again. If you manage that, your chances of lasting longer will be better. Other then that just listen to her, I find sex to be a completely natural movement, but not everyone feels the way. So do what feels right, it probably feel a little awkward for you for your first, or first few times, but hopefully you have picked a good girl who will understand your situation and talk you through if you hit a rough patch or if she knows what will feel better for her.

 

Wear deodorant. Eat her pussy til she cums before you even think about stickin it in. Make sure your pee pee is wet before attempting to penetrate. If her axe wound is not wet, you may have to lubricate your pipe with spit. If you have to back off cuz your gonna nut too soon, quickly place your hand on that pussy and rub her clit for a moment before you get back in there.

 

God- I wish something like this was my biggest concern-- Hell Im in my 60,s and Im still not sure I know what Im doin- -haha

Believe it or not> most of the whole deal will come (no pun) naturally- -have fun , explore each other

ohYoungLove**

 

DO NOT use the condom beforehand.

 

I'd say use a condom and a bit of lube. That way you'd be smoother, and it may help your movement a bit, and help you experience it a bit as well as the slipperyness wil help you move with her and seem more confident.

 

two words: Berry white.

Just tell her, there's no reason to not let her know unless you're just picking up some chick at a bar to ditch your virginity. And even then, unless she's smashed, she'll probably know....

If she's not a total bitch, she'll be happy to help you out.... she'll PROBABLY be excited by that

As jungle jack said, most of it's natural..... There's tips and tricks, but you probly won't be BAD at it or anything... And I personally don't get the finishing too fast problem. Possibly due to excess masturbation it can take me well over an hour to finish, I didn't my first few times, and the first time I DID cum took like 4+ hours of drunk fucking. But anyway, if you have any sort of feel for your own body, you should have no problem not finishing, just relax your ass, totally not hard....

*edit* also, move together.... you can pound her and still be moving *WITH* her, not *AT* her.

*edit2* don't do that stupid shit with jacking off first or whatever, dumbest idea ever, unless you want to have no fun and totally underwhelm her. Probly better to do it right for 3 mins than half-ass it for half an hour, ya know?

 

When i had sex for the first time i felt like i had done it before, it was so natural and i was a pro from the first time i did it. My GF couldnt even believe i was a virgin, she still thinks so to this day that im not

 

definintly lots of foreplay man. It's a known fact that 90% of women never have a true orgasm in their life. Most of them just fake it. So acheiving that in reality is one hell of a good moment for you. But make sure you can perform again. Trust me you'll know if she has a real one, I sure do when my wife does.

 

Tell her she's the first you've ever made love to. It'll be sweet. She will love it.