interracial relationship

I been dating this white girl for the past month, this is my first time dating one. We live 4 hours away from each other, and i'm in love with her already.


Have you ever been in a interracial relationship ?

 

I'm in one now. I'm part Hispanic and my gf is Vietnamese. I never really saw myself with an Asian girl. Haha. i love her very much.

 

Its hard tho, she thinks the reason I won't let her come to NY becuz she's white, and that my friends won't like her

 

well why wont u let her come to NY?

 

because I'm not an open lesbian down here, and if she come she will want to spend the weekend, plus i live in a all black neighborhood (not the ghetto), its gunna be awkward for her.

It's just gunna be obvious

 

My girlfriend is Japanese, I'm a fairly white European.

I never saw myself with an asian girl until I went to Asia, but I must say, after living there for a few years I can't imagine going back to western girls.

For me it's a culture thing as well as a physical thing, though. I am much, much more attracted to "real" asian girls than western-raised ones.

Edit: Oops, just noticed this was in the lesbian forum. Hope it's Ok I replied anyways.

 

that sucks, the fact that u cant live your love freely because others may annoy u.
i hope u still manage to hang out with your gf.

to answer your original question, i have. i've dated a few black guys in the past. in fact, when i was in college i kept ending up with black boyfriends, which was simply a coincidence, i wasnt particularly looking for black guys. but people kept joking about how "i like them big" and whatnot, at first it made me laugh then it became old and just not funny/insulting. other than that, i encountered absolutely no problem with those interracial relationships, people accepted them pretty well (including my boyfriends' families). but i suppose it depends on how open-minded people are where u live. and also i get the impression most people dont mind seeing a white girl with a black guy, for some reason


edit : i actually know this is the lesbian forum, but i reckon the topic itself is not specific to lesbians, or is it?

 

Do people still really bother with this kind of stuff?!
Have you talked to your friends about it? If not-you should anytime soon. Because you'll have to do it at some point. And I suggest soon because she feels left out even now.
I think what matters is how *you* feel about it and that you love her. And your friends will get used to it eventually.