Desired characteristics of a man

To put all the information from the thread about what is a good looking cock in perspective, I would like the ladies to rate the following characteristics of a man in the order they find the most important. I quickly came up with ten sample items that partially determine a man's character, and what I want you to do is copy and paste them and rate them from 1 to 10 in the order of importance, 1 being the most important and 10 being the least important. If you all put the number rating right behind the # symbol it will make it easy to read through and compare. And I suppose if you want to, you can put a #1 by all the deal breaker characteristics; guys you wouldn't date if they didn't have that characteristic. That would give the guys a clue as to what is really important to you.

# ) Handsomely dressed (style that compliments your taste)

# ) Clean and does the best he can with what he has so far as looks

# ) Courteous and considerate

# ) Sense of humor that compliments yours

# ) Capable of living independently and having some spending money left over. In other words, capable of taking care of himself.

# ) Punctual

# ) Follows through and does what he says he will, keeps promises

# ) Clean and well trimmed finger nails and toe nails

# ) A good looking penis.

# ) Hands that know just how and where to massage you.

 

like any girls will answer this honestly...

 

Valid point.

Are we talking a serious relationship or just to fuck?

 

Good point here.......

 

I guess we could discuss that, although the concept is strange to me. Who would fuck someone and not be in a serious relationship? Do hippies do that nowadays?

If you are in a bar and you are looking for a one night stand, how do you determine who the lucky guy is? Do you ask him to drop his pants and check out his penis?

The reason I left this in the genitalia section is that the question really has to do with the male genitalia. If you read and study the fine print, the question really can be simplified to the following; which is more important to the females, a man's genitals or his character? Even if you are only having a one night stand or perhaps trying out sex with a "friend".

The reason I ask is that in the craigslist rants and raves section, especially Chicago, men will post pictures of their genitals. Lots of men also email people pics of genitals. My understanding of women is that this would be mostly a turn off, and the man would be much better off describing his good character, his skills at satisfying a woman, and maybe a pic of his upper body dressed in a nice shirt and perhaps tie and sportcoat, which would include his face. Also in the prior thread here ladies were responding with what they liked in a penis, but the question I have is "How important is a man's penis?" I have heard the ladies rule that it needs to be at least 5", and I can understand that.

So if you have 2 men, one is dressed nice and has a good sense of humor and a 6" penis and knows how to use it, and the other one is unshaven, dirty, smells of sweat, dressed sloppy, and lives in his parent's basement but has an 11" penis, which one do you fuck?

 

*raises hand*

1) Follows through and does what he says he will, keeps promises
2) Courteous and considerate
3) Sense of humor that compliments yours
4) A good looking penis.
5) Handsomely dressed (style that compliments your taste)
6) Hands that know just how and where to massage you.
7) Capable of living independently and having some spending money left over. In other words, capable of taking care of himself.
8) Punctual
9) Clean and does the best he can with what he has so far as looks
10) Clean and well trimmed finger nails and toe nails


Really, though, these aren't all things I typically look for in guy, so it's rating things I don't care about. I don't care about cleanliness, punctuality, clothing, "clean and well trimmed finger nails and toe nails," or his finances. It's me judging on things I don't give a fuck about.

 

everyone. that is how relationships begin. you haven't noticed that women refuse to have sex with someone that isn't either a complete stranger, or their boyfriend who became their boyfriend by having sex with them the day they met?

hippies don't exist nowadays, but the insecure high school girls who feel the need to cling to the hippie label are insecure high school girls who also feel the need to sleep with strangers.

well, the upper body pic would be good, until your boss sees a picture of you looking for casual sex on craigslist. otherwise, it's a lot easier to lie about your character than to lie about your penis size through a picture.

i'm guessing guy number 1 would win here just because most women would rather enjoy sex than simulate giving birth, but take out the penis size from the equation and number 2 obviously jumps miles ahead in the race.

 

If He Loves Me.......And I Love Him .......Nothing Else Matters......



Cheers Glen.

 

How do you determine who to love? Do you think its pheromones, or what?

 

What you do on your own time is your business. If your boss fires you based on this type of discrimination, you can sue them.

 

not if you live in an employment-at-will state, and not if your boss is smart enough to find a legitimate reason to fire you (there's always something), and not if you just got fired and thus have no money to pay a good lawyer to go up against your company's huge team of multi-million dollar litigators.

 

Ok, so my most serious relationship is a fuck buddy type, meaning I do it all the time, and I am not a hippie by any means.

I think you are seriously on the wrong page with what establishes a hookup. I go for men and women that are sexy, fun and do not annoy me. what the hell makes you think that what a guy's dick looks like has anything to do with picking a one nighter? You dont find that out until you are already getting naked, and diseased is really the only deal breaker at that point.

One night stands are based on sexual attraction, there isnt an inspection process. If the person is what you find attractive they work, if not they dont. Tiny penis or giant is just a part of it, not the selection factor except perhaps in rare case where pre existing knowledge exists. But even then, sexual attraction to the whole person rules.

 

in the genitalia section..really?

 

Aside from the humour, this looks like you think women are seeking a robot with a nice tidy stash of money who is shallow to the point of worrying about fashion and fingernails, and he also has a pornstar cock. Cock aside, this looks like a list of desirable attributes for an office employee. Punctual!?

As for knowing how to massage and being "clean", a chimp could learn those things. I've never thought of men in terms remotely like these. I'll stick to taking a guy for what he is rather than making a list of expectations.

 

There's no list of things.... I mean everyone has some things like clean is a big one lol.

For me it's just that guy, if I see you and you see me and we talk and hit it off and there's that feeling. Then ya know.

 

I am insulted on behalf of female users that nothing to do with that man's development in creativity, philosophy and other endeavours of the mind are not included in that list. Or much to do with compassion.

And this is coming from a guy who's drop-dead gorgeous with a large cock and a caring attitude. Stop laughing. Women enjoy meeting me but I rarely see to it that we "click", as it were. Usually you can tell a lot of the basic things a woman wants, like whether she likes men who suck-up to her or more of a challenge by her body language. Clicking with people is really not hard when you understand how people communicate. Trouble is, the more you learn, the more you don't want to communicate with most people.

Most of the girls who have replied have made me smile, I had feared nobody would point out that they are individuals and wouldn't base a relationship (short or long) on such trivial attributes. Girl power!

 

The point I was really trying to make in a round about way, and now have enough evidence to present in court, is that a man's penis is not very high on the list of what a woman looks at when she decides who to have sex with. So why does the average man constantly worry about the size of it, compare it to other men's, post pictures of it on the internet to get feedback on it, ask girls what kind of penis they prefer, have pissing contests, etc.? Is it because they are ignorant, or stupid?

 

Because they're male and sexually competitive.

 

Eyes never gets a mention in these things? That would be No. 1

 

I prefer the ones who pay me when im done fixing their car