I Lost My Daddy Tonight

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by bluedragonfly, Aug 23, 2011.

  1. itsallgood

    itsallgood Senior Member

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  2. LoneDeranger

    LoneDeranger Trying to pay attention.

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    Please add my condolences to the pile. Take it one day at a time, one step, and then another. Eventually, you and your family will get through this.
     
  3. roamy

    roamy Senior Member

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    sorry for your troubles bluedragonfly. r.i.p.
     
  4. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    please accept my condolences and know that my thoughts are with you
     
  5. yarapario

    yarapario Village Elder

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    If I were there in person I'd hug you and let you cry as you must do. All seven of my sons are adopted so I know how powerful that connection is. I'm glad you had this place to turn to for some additional care. Seems like a lot of us here are concerned for you and yours. Your Dad was a lucky man to have you for a daughter...I'm glad you had each other to share life.
     
  6. SuperPsychMe

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    Very sorry to hear that. Just try to keep your head up, I'm sure that's what he would have wanted. I know it's easier said than done. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
     
  7. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    any word yet what it was the cause ?
     
  8. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    This^. And I'm sorry for your loss,also.
     
  9. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    I lost a friend 2 weeks ago...he took a nap at work and never woke up

    the sudden ones are not so bad...I kind of hope i die quick when the time comes


    I like the way you gave your meds to your mom to handle...that was a great idea
     
  10. pairadocs

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    Wow, you are beautiful! I know the drive to extra-medicate in such times. I often struggle with that myself. But for you to take precautions, to make sure that you would be available for the rest of your family, is a major deal. You are a true credit to your family and the way your Dad and Mom raised you.
     
  11. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    Sorry to hear that this has happened. It's hard to lose a loved one at any age, but especially to lose a parent when you are still quite young.

    As painful as it is to lose your dad, at least you had a dad that you loved so much. A lot of people have really bad family relationships, so to have such a good dad even for such a short time is still a lucky thing

    I'm glad that you are getting lots of support. I wish you comfort in your loss

    :grouphug:
     
  12. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    what happened to you buddy?
     
  13. SpacemanSpiff

    SpacemanSpiff Visitor

    he died

    heart attack
     
  14. dizz36

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    Im sorry :(.
    Ill be sending you good vibes.
     
  15. bluedragonfly

    bluedragonfly Member

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    Thanks everyone. ((Hugs)) I went to my doctor and he put me on a new anti-depressant and upped my xanax. It'll only be a higher dose for a temporary period. I also scheduled an appointment with a psychologist for Monday.

    I'm sorry to hear about your friend BBAD.You have my thoughts and prayers.

    As to what happened.. we still don't know. I'm not sure when we'll get the autopsy reports.
     
  16. Aerianne

    Aerianne Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm very sorry for your loss. Prayers going up for all of you.
     
  17. bluedragonfly

    bluedragonfly Member

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    We found out that my Dad's body had an infection that got to his heart and enlarged it.

    Thank you all again for your thoughts.. This is certainly the hardest thing I've ever been through, but we're all making it.. one day at a time.
     
  18. Shivaya

    Shivaya Y'a rien de trop beau pour la classe ouvrière.

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  19. Aerianne

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    Wow. I'm so sorry. Hang in there.
     
  20. indydude

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    I'm sorry to hear about your Dad. I cant even imagine. Peace and strength for you.
     

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