Hey everyone! I need a little help on a Cancer/ Scorpio relationship/ friendship. I am a Cancer woman and got with a Scorpio woman couple months ago; she is someone I met a while back, both had biggest crush on one another, but waited for right time to get together. Once we did, things where great! She was totally into me and made it clear she wanted to date me and get to know me. (She was straight BTW, but said she liked girls too) And I was her first actual sexual encounter. Problem started about one month in, she started avoiding me, ignoring my texts and just being plain shady. I finally got annoyed and told her if she wanted me to leave her alone I would. She then started replying to my texts but made a bunch of excuses not to hang out. Couple weeks later she said she didnt want a relationship and we could be friends. I said OK. About one week after I invited her out, she textd saying she was straight and dating someone, and wanted me as a friend. I said OK again. Now this is the problem, every time she rejects me, she starts looking for me that same week. She will text me late at night to say goodnight, and early in the morning to say good morning. And texts during week when before she was "busy". Now she wants to come over this weekend to use my computer. Anyone know how to interpret this?? Is this just a game? I read Scorpios are loyal so is she really trying to be friends because she does like me as friend only? Does she text because she feels bad for rejecting me? I am a Cancer and this is driving me crazy!! I am so into her and she knows it. I need advise on what to do. Thanx everyone!
I think she's confused and a little scared and doesn't know what to do. Give her some time to figure herself out, I did this to my gf before we were together when I was confused. Shell work herself through it, but I know its hard in the meantime...
Thank you JL22. Maybe Im just being hopeful but I kinda agree with you. Still, I dont want to read more into it, after all, she did tell me not to chase after her, we are friends. SoJL22, what is it that finally made you change your mind? How do I act with her in the meantime? BTW, are you a Scorpio? Not that it should matter but I know Scorpios are very strong minded and straight to the point. And would not like to rub her the wrong way. I read I should never ignore a Scorpio. So confused! BTW, she hasn't texted in few days. I guess I will wait to see if she even shows up on Sunday.
i thinks she still likes you but just questioning her sexuality. Its a normal reaction for a straight girl who been with guys all her life to have a relationship with other woman, and then start acting funny. And stop basing this situation on signs, its just make you more paranoid.
Yea it drove my gf insane too. Honestly I freaked out after we spent a weekend together and I told her I didn't wanna be with her and we didn't talk for two months. Then I realized that I didn't wanna live without her and the rest is history im a sagitarius btw
im a scorpio here. was in a relationship with a cancer who did not have the qualities of a cancer. i dont think using star signs to determine a person's personality is the way to go here. if you didnt mention what her sign was, id say shes just not that into you. if shes playing a game, youd have to ask yourself: do you want to be tied to someone who is into drama? a good relationship has too much to offer. dont waste time playing games.
