I have an idea... it's really out there and unorthodox but it may be crazy enough to work...... have you considered asking HIM all of these questions instead of a bunch of random people on the internet?
Gabby, how old are you? I ask because sending suggestive photos is a bit impulsive. I'm so glad that nude or suggestive photos were harder to make when I was young. (but I can develop and print in a darkroom)