First off, quick note before I start my story true love is such an open term, I like to think about my lover as a soul mate rather than my true love, that's just silly, when is love not true? The story of how him and I met is kind of long so I'll just do a 'long story short'. hehe.. When I met him I was in a real crap relationship, the guy I was dating at the time was a real jerk, he was a rapist, that I couldn't convict because I love his family. I was completely out of love with him, dating him in hopes he'd return to the man I once fell in love with, but then of course I met my soul mate... and that changed everything... I wouldn't say it was love at first sight, he wasn't a looker (then again, I'm not either), but it was love at first conversation... He had this vibe that reeled me in, I am drawn to him, the way I melt in him eyes, at the time (and still now) he was always on my mind, I would think about him constantly. Even when I had sex with my boyfriend... That's when I knew it was time to get out of the relationship... I had a reason (not for me, since I didn't love him and he was a rapist) but a story for his family, his and my friends. I was the bitch who fell in love with the 'ugly' guy. I didn't care what they thought of me. I was FINALLY happy. Of course he was in love with me too.. He was afraid I'd break his heart, so like a coward he ran away, he ignored me. But being who I am I was determined to get what I wanted, isn't that everyone's goal? To find/get happiness? Well MONTHS after he ran off I finally got him back, and he is SO grateful I didn't give up on him.. Now today 2 years later we're still incredibly in love with each other, as if it was the first day we talked. It's hard to explain finding your soul mate to people who might not have that feeling, but you just know... It's an unconditional love, it's a burning passion, it's a complete trust and understanding. It's bliss in a world of hurt, and I'm so blessed to have it <3 :sunny:
Good for you, the looks aren't everything are they, I have often seen couples who didtn look like they belonged together nd wondered...but hey who am i to ask? My love is 5'11 native american woman and I am a 5'7' White guy, so we look funny I guess but i don;t care. Its the greatest love of my life. I have never had anyone treat me fair before..
it's not true when it's faked, or when it's lust mistaken for love. now soul mates are never true, since souls are a made up thing. also, don't date a rapist for his family. that's just asinine.
a very sweet story....still confused why you would even think about dating a rapist. You sound very happy now...and that's wonderful!
