Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now and we are very in love. We live together and spend every moment together and it has been working out very well. Our sex life was always amazing and fullfilling. We would have sex often and it would be great. I don't mean to brag but when it comes to sex I consider myself pretty skilled, I am well endowed, I have good technique and I can last very long(an hour or more) and after I cum I can usually get another erection right away. BUT i fear this has also been a bad thing. you see the last 3 or 4 times we have had sex for one reason or another I have not been lasting so long. At first it was only 15 minutes and last time I came after like 3 pumps! Obviously I was embarressed but I understand that these things happen sometimes and we have had amazing sex almost every other time so I figured it wouldn't be such a big deal. On the contrary. My girlfriend was very upset(especially after the last time) and said this is why she doesn't like having sex anymore. Well, needless to say I was pretty pissed and hurt. I couldn't believed that only 4 less than amazing sex sessions would turn her off of sex almost completley. Now she says she wants to have sex but she doesn't want to be let down! Thankfully my self esteem is pretty much intact just because I have a good understanding of my body, but I am so pissed and frustrated with her attitude. Any suggestions at how I should handle this? Thanks guys
She just wanst to get off. 15 is enough time to make her cum there sex machine. An hour or more is great if thats what they want but dude, sometimes chics don't want a marathon, they just wanna fuck and cum a couple times and maybe have a glass of water after. Lick it before you stick it, fuck her til she cums and then bust if you must.
Not any more you can't. But why not just get another erection and carry on? So are you shit in bed or aren't you? I can't tell from your message.
She isn't worth it anyway. Clearly, you're having some sort of physical or mental issue when having sex. If she can't be there for you through that then she doesn't really care about you.
how does an hour in bed turn into over night 3 pumps? maybe your just crazy and you don't realize it? talk to your girlfriend and ask her how she feels about you, perception is key