OK, am i the only one that dont like giving head, i fucking hate it, n when they go down on me they expect it back!! forplay shouldnt be like that its not about if i do this you gotta do that because i did loool pees me right off!!! its it just me??
Huh? I'm pretty sure there's other people out there that don't like to. Love (and lust) are give and take. If you really can't stand it; don't do it. If you can, then um, suck it up.
I don't ever expect it after performing oral on a chick, In fact I like to penetrate immediately after making her cum from oral. Having said that I would not like it if I couldn't get a little head once in awhile.
Sometimes A friend/ co-worker will complain that their wife/ girlfriend doesn't give head. I always tell them it's their fault for not making them realize it's important. Every woman I've ever slept with more than once has given me blowjobs and all of them swallowed, never have I had a spitter. Out of consideration it's nice to make sure your cock is clean. I am uncut, so I always make sure I pull back the foreskin and wash. If I want a morning blowjob I wash my whole crotch area. When I met my wife she was very inexperienced sexually and advised me that she really didn't know how to give blowjobs but I patiently taught her and within a month or two was awesome at it. We have settled into a routine where she gives me a blowjob a week. When the kids were smaller it was usually on Wednesday evenings. We called it 'The Midweek'. Now that they don't go to bed so early it's usually on Saturday mornings before she goes shopping. Sometimes when we're having sex she'll suck my cock for a minute or two during foreplay. Also once in a while when we're doing missionary she'll say: "do you want to cum in my mouth?". We also do 69 once or twice a month and she really does a nice job deep throating and grabbing my cock with both hands and massaging. Otherwise we do three basic styles; one in bed, where she lays her head on my belly and sucks me. This is a good angle for her to deep throat. The other where I am in a chair and she sits on the floor. I like this for the eye contact and watching her chew and nibble on my foreskin. Sometimes I'll ask her to hold her tongue out so I can watch the cum ooze out on her tongue. The third way is where I lay on the bed and jerk off. While I am doing this she massages my whole body and when I am ready to cum she puts her mouth over it. Sometimes I ask her to wait until I blow my load and then ask to lick all the cum off my cock. When we were first together she used to give me a blowjob every day. Once, she sucked me off, I came and she kept sucking until I got hard again and finally orgasmed again. I jerk off to that memory from time to time. I also jerk off to the memory of the first time she rode cowgirl. She had never done that with anyone and was so horny after she got off and without me saying word, she reflexively sucked my cock clean. The way she just went from riding to sucking all in one unconscious movement was so arousing that it has stuck in my head for 15 years. If I were single I would NEVER stay with a woman who wouldn't suck my cock and swallow. The oral component of sex is soooo important. Kissing, sucking on tits, eating pussy, rimming are all essential to great sex.
The whole point about sex (in whatever form) is that it is to be enjoyed - have you shared your feelings? Maybe there are other ways that pleasurable foreplay could be embraced i.e a play on the action? I'm sure you'll find a solution
I think blow jobs are necessary for a relationship. Its not all about YOU during sex, you know. Its a mutual thing. Give and take.
True! I've known so many girls that would talk about not wanting to go down on their guy but they expected for them to go down on them. It's a sexual experience. I get turned on when I think about going down on my boyfriend more than anything.
I grieve for the peni out there that will go suckless when in a relationship with you. But to each their own I guess!
I'm going to refer to Bill Hicks on this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYJCK_jdmiw"]Bill Hicks - Blowjob - YouTube Stay Brown, Rev J
