I skipped a lot of this thread, but one thing that might need to be said. If its not cool with you, don't say it is. "Sure, you can go out with your buddies" should NOT be a test of his psychic abilities. On his part, "It will only be an hour" starts being BS at 120 minutes. Both of you should know the habits of your crowd (i.e. one hour is never one hour). But he should be aware that you are expecting him back in an hour (adjusted) and act like it. Communication is important. Let's look at that "hour" again. Is it important to you that he be back in 60 minutes or is the "time limit" just courtesy as to when to start worrying? Each of you need to communicate with each other. Is it important to the person who says "its oK" that the "hour" be close to 60 minutes? Is "hour" a real estimate or just the first time unit that popped into someone's mouth? This all depends on each situation and the two of you need to learn to communicate what the situation is and what the expectations are. Above all, don't expect the other to be psychic. "You should know without being told" is a cop-out and a play to become the dominant power in the relationship. Communicate.
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^ stupid^ how is that insulting? lol if I tell you to lick a clit you'd be like~ okay so yeah...try again...
Have you been on many nights out with friends? What tends to happen is people show up uninvited, friends of friends and so on. Are these people supposed to be sent away if they are of the wrong gender? And, uh, why!? Surely the OP isn't really that insecure that she can't stand a woman being there on his night out. It doesn't sound like he planned for her to be there at all. I'm failing to see the issue...sometimes it's really healthy to spend time with other people, of both genders.
yes you have a reason to be mad about him sleeping after inviting you. no you don't have a reason to be mad about his being out. you said he could go. if you didn't want him to go, or if there were "restrictions" you wanted put on it..YOU SHOULD HAVE SAID SO. FACT is you're being childish acting like that over his going out to the bar if you chose to say it was ok and didn't speak up.
i have some clothes and papers scattered about. untidy, perhaps, but not disgusting. food and dishes get cleaned and put away immediately, garbage is dealt with. and from what i've seen this is pretty typical. the whole "sink full of dirty dishes" stereotype is not really all that realistic. and like i had alluded to earlier, if i did leave dishes in the sink for a bit, that's because i'm going to get to them later, not because i expect someone else to come clean them. i know she's more independent than most women, only about half of her posts are about her boyfriend as opposed to 99.999999% of the average taken woman's posts, but it's still pretty easy to tell that she's not single. well yeah, i could see him being annoyed that some girl crashed guy's night out, especially if she's a girlfriend of one of the guys and is throwing a wet blanket on the whole evening, but the OP wasn't even present. really? i didn't realize travel invitations involved such stipulations. i was under the impression that he invited her to maui and then she got to go to maui with him. it's not like he invited her to maui and then locked her in the closet.
I'll drink to that. nothing worse than when you expect to hang out with the dudes and one of them brings his girlfriend over. PWAN PWAN PWANNNN. OK I'll go to maui with you, but NO SLEEPING!
