Beware of befriending people with a lot of issues

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by rak, Sep 13, 2011.

  1. rak

    rak Senior Member

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    I used to do that a lot because they were the easiest to date. As soon as I went out with them and was friendly to them they let out all their problems on you so that you are as miserable as they.
     
  2. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    You reap what you sow.
     
  3. dmorris

    dmorris Member

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    and in related news. The sun is very bright and very hot. more at 11.

    translation - no shit, any other gems of brilliance you want to share? want to warn us that water is wet? or ice is cold too?

    lol sorry but...no shit.
     
  4. lunarverse

    lunarverse The Living End

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    Some people are emotional grenades. Unfortunately you don't know this until they explode one day.
     
  5. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    the most passionate relationships you have are the ones with the psychopaths.

    sometimes sane people are just too boring.
     
  6. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    That's why I go for people who have accepted their insanity. But seriously, it sounds sad but I've learned it the hard way as well. I no longer befriend peeps who seem to think a new friend is ideal to share all your damn issues with. I'm willing to help or offer advise with a problem of course but some people just cost too much energy and drag you down in all their negativity...
     
  7. Dejavu

    Dejavu Until the great unbanning

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  8. rak

    rak Senior Member

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    I would have expected people with issues to be thankful for comfort and not angry.

    Tell us about it, since you know more about it than us.
     
  9. Dejavu

    Dejavu Until the great unbanning

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    I've never had one. But I did see one out and about when I was young. I don't remember it looking like they do now in the pictures. No-one touched it. It was very much alone.
     
  10. thedope

    thedope glad attention Lifetime Supporter

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    I'm confused. Is it love or commerce that you are after. If it is love, then the psycho are perfect candidates for your affection. If you after a good return, buy a dog.
     
  11. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    I think the word 'date', says it all.
     
  12. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    There's some difference between dogs and human friends, and what if your dog appears to have lots of issues? :p
     
  13. Rugor

    Rugor Senior Member

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    it just depends

    there are people that have problems but move on and are a lot more chill and open minded when meeting other people with problems cus they know what it is like.

    then there are people with problems that never move on and turn into negative hateful people and just go around trying to put others in a bad mood. and they have a bad attitude towards people who seem happy.


    then there are cocky happy people who think they are perfect and look down on people who have problems and think they are better and treat people who do not appear perfect like them as crap.

    then there are happy people with perfect life that spread happiness to everyone.
     

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