I know I'm Bi but am I Gay? I like the thought of sucking cock and getting ass fucked, but kissing a guy repulses me; but when it comes to girls I have no problem kissing and screwing them. I prefer sex with men over women. Am I Bisexual leaning towards Gay.
you are perfect just the way you are. dont get caught up with stupid labels. sexuality is something that you shouldnt check off in a box. when someone asks you about your sexuality you should give them at least a 10 minute answer. (if they merit and answer at all). sexuality is too complex to be simple. and i know that perhaps some people wont go out with you because you dont adhere to a label, but those people are prejudiced and you shouldnt go out with them anyway. refuse to label yourself and be proud of your sexuality!
Everyone's just somewhere on the spectrum of sexual preference, which has women at one side and men at the other. It's not like there's 1, 2, or 3 catagories that you automatically must snap into.
you are very very wrong just look at the volume of people who post about being confused. its not ever simple, and if its really simple for you, well ure one in a million
can you tell me the number of people who have visited hipforums who are not confused? no, because they don't post about not being confused. i know some people are indeed confused about their sexuality, but they make up a very small percentage of the total of the population on this planet. besides, a lot of the people who post about being unsure of their sexuality are in the process of finding out about what their sexuality is. it does not make them undecided, or 'sexual' for everyone and no-one. eventually it settles on one category which that person himself agrees with. very very few of them remain confused for all their life. and with all that being said, what people post here on the hipforums can't be treated as a scientific case study on human sexuality. for it to be that you need those people's background, their habits, personality traits, and do follow-up studies on them. what people post on hipforums (or any forums like this) are single moments of life taken out of context. you cannot make an accurate deduction based on that. you do that by living real life, talking to real people, by reading science books on topics that pertain to the subject. and yes, it has been that simple for me. ever since i started having sexual feelings for other people it was always for guys. and my sexuality has been consistent throughout my life. i haven't felt sexually attracted to women not once in my life. and i've never been confused about it either. i always knew. and i can also speak for my friends and other guys with whom i've talked about on this subject throughout my life; and because of this my opinion is that for most guys (i can't speak for women) sexuality is clearly categorizable and consistent.
OK-how bout this A guy has a fantasy of being with another guy. Then this guy does his exerimenting The guy is still not sure of his feelings in this realm Then this guy is in a perfect situation to try being top for the first time (all pre-planned) The other guy bends over and then it's just one guys cock and another guys ass The guy looks at situation and stares at the ass just inches from his cock And this guy decides then and there that sex with another guy is not now or ever be in his present or future. He's happy he explored, but never wants to see another guy's naked ass or cock. So I assume initially it could be categorized as bi-curious, but no longer. Is he straight? Is he bi for life? Guess things are not nearly as straight forward as presented.
well this guy is clearly straight. why do i think that? because of his reaction after he tried to be with another guy. he may have abstractly wondered what it might be like to be with a man, but that was something he conjured up on his own, that wasn't attraction he felt for a guy. and once he put himself in that situation it comes out clearly that he is straight. your example does nothing to illustrate someone confused about their sexuality. it's just an example of a person abstractly wondering what something he has never experienced feels like. we can all wonder about what it might be like to be with a man/woman (use the one you are not usually attracted to) but what our body has to say about things when we are not thinking at all, that is what makes up a person's sexuality.
