I never realised that calling someone a nice name to describe their nature to be so offensive ... thank you for helping me clear that up ... NOT!
Well, not that this may matter but in the Olde World Dialect of Lancashire, names like 'sweetheart', 'darling' or 'love' were used frequently to address the fairer sex. I tend to still use these expressions on a daily basis to address many of my female aquaintances (e.g, "Hiya love!" or "y'all right, darlin'?"). These expressions are not used as widespread as they used to be but some of us like to use them. Would you say I'm trying to screw every lady I serve on the Curry Pot and Pizza counter at work when I say "Thanks love, bye!"? Maybe I might wanna botty-bang every man I serve when I say "Thanks pal, see ya now!" I hope this clears things up.
hmmm.. im aware of my age and the stupidity in adressing my opinions on such a topic... but you should be allowed to see her, owing to the fact you are friends and nothing else (you know the truth better than any of us) but.. i don't liek the fact he is going to a party a few hours away, yet she has to stay home? my god.. she should have a bit more self respect for herself and suck it up and tell him to his face that he needs to let her breathe a little bit. how come people always think they can just control and manipulate such things? she is a human being and deserves respect. by the way, if you cannot trust your lover, and now that i hear its been five years... maybe the light is dying down a bit. if he lvoes her so much, he should just put his love and trust and hope into..who knows what he is doing at that party anyways? trust and communication are key in a relationship. and im interested in how older guys like himself cannot understand it.... *sigh*
I'd say the fact that he is allowed to go where he likes and she has to stay home is what annoys me the most. I think I may offer to sit down and talk to her about it. As far as I know, she's allowed to see female friends but I don't think she really has any other male friends. Maybe he sees me as a threat to his masculinity or something shit like that. I don't really want to say anything that I may later regret. I want to tell her to maybe re-evaluate her relationship but if they split up as a result of what I say, I'd probably feel guilty for the rest of my life. I don't know her that well yet either (having only known her for a few months) so I can't really comment on a lot of things. She says he's on his 'last chance' at the moment but this, for some reason, strikes me as an empty threat she would never go through with ... which is a shame. I'll stop blabbing now!
