I said " i love you" (as a joke) and he disappeared...?

i remember reading about this whole thing like a month ago. and then...

he suddenly came back within one hour of you posting about it, even though he had been gone for weeks? i suppose it's possible, but i have a hard time buying it.

he obviously didn't leave because of the i love you, that wouldn't make any sense. he probably liked you and was upset that you were explaining that away as though you weren't interested in him, or he decided it was weird having a relationship via text with a stranger, or he's gay, or he's not gay and was super embarrassed at having pretended to like a boy band just for a girl who didn't actually love him.

 

... and has terrible taste in music

 

he's obviously a bit under your skin since you have posted about him. why so cold?

as long as you like the sensitive type, maybe you should forgive him

 

pop music is the best!! why do men don't like it??

 

i liked him...and i really wanted to date him, but he disappeared so he wasn't interested in me, that's obvious, and maybe he met another girl -.-"
then he came back lying to me, and saying he had "personal problems" (yeah...sure -.-)at the time and he knew he wasn't ready to date me. He's just an idiot (with a cute face), he's a liar, and he didn't even apologized! Probably he's only interested in sex.

 

I only know what you've told me.

you don't know that he's a liar or that he's only interested in sex. could be though

 

ok,i don't know if he's a liar. Anyway why did he start flirting with me if he wasn't ready to date?? Because he was ready to date, and he didn't have any peronal problems!!!

 

what makes you think that he would only flirt with you if he was ready to date?

 

you flirt with someone because you like or you r attracted by him/her and you want to date.
or you r a player and u flirt with every girl you met, or u only want to have sex.
if u r a nice guy (not a player, and not looking for sex) u don't flirt with girls when u r not ready to date them...and if u flirt with a girl u like (but u r going through some stuff and u r not ready for a commitment) u should talk to her, or at least don't disappear!

 

this post is so inaccurate i don't know where to start. i'll just point out that your keyboard does have a Y and an O.

 

no, you're wrong. human behavior is complicated. an action does not necessarily correspond to one inner intention

if you're mad because he disappeared and don't want to date him, fine. and maybe he is a liar or a player. you don't know this though.

 

so why did he flirt with me??/
and why he disappeared??

 

like I said, human behavior is complicated.

you don't know why

what makes you think that everything has to make sense so easily?

 

why not?

based on the information you've given us, it sounds like he had personal problems.

 

well...i think he met someone else..that's why i don't want to give him a second chance

 

because it's easy!! he disappeared because he wasn't interested. That's all! when u r interested you don't stop to talk to that person. and that's a fact

 

no, it's a generalization.

 

ladydark, I'm done trying to talk sense to you because you've already made up your mind

also, you're a troll

troll's make posts like this, and if you weren't a troll, you wouldn't make this kind of post

that's a fact

 

if he really had personal problems...he could tell me "hey let's stay friends"
or "sorry i'm not ready for a commitment...i have some personal stuff going on".

 

if he really had personal problems...he could told me "hey let's stay friends"
or "sorry i'm not ready for a commitment...i have some personal stuff going on".