I started masturbation a few years back, talking dirty on the phone leaded to my first ever masturbation, of course I went full out and managed to find out I was a squirter, every time I'd masturbate, I'd squirt, then my "partner" left and i found no reason to masturbate. Ever since then, my masturbation attempts have been lazy and I never got into it, I've had about 7 sexual partners and none of them have ever made me squirt, or orgasm... I'm currently with someone who really does do it for me, he's gorgeous and good with his fingers and the sex is great. Although, I've never squirted or orgasmed. Infact, I forgot I could squirt until recently on webcam to him.. How do I help him give me an orgasm? After I squirt, my vagina gets a bit dry, and because it just happens when it happens.. I can't or havent managed to control it yet... So I don't like to carry on until an orgasm. Also, when I rub my clit or have anyone else rub my clit, it tickles too much and I twitch and it feels so awfully good, but I just can't get past it... I need some serious help
I've had oral sex, and it didn't really do anything for me, like the attention is nice, but it doesn't make me feel amazing or anything
It's ok, you're not the only one (but younhave to tell your man that's you, not his oral performance! Lol) Well, you should try to have sex only when you're very excited, full on! Not just when it looks convenient, or your bf ask for it... Or get into a very kinky mood, depending what turns you crazy!
Truth is likely you've never been with a guy hot enough. 7 partners, and all probably chosen by the gauge of boyfriend material; safe, dependable, sweet, whippable. The kind of guys you dont have to worry about chasing the other girls away. All criteria for everything else in life except sexual attraction. Hook up with a guy thats a 10/10 on the phroar factor, forget about how supposedly sensitive that thing in your pants is, talking about the type of guy that'll make you cum just by running his fingers through your hair. But you already know this
Yes you are most likely trying to hard to hit that O again and not really having fun anymore. Take a step back and relax. Hard not to but don't think abbout i while having sex. Get the fun back in the bedroom, wear those sexy outfits, watch some porn, talk dirty. Relax let go and have fun.