Extremely Depressed Because of Injury with no Solution

Hello I'm a guy.

I injured my penis in 2005 from masturbation and i accidentlaly bent it a bit. Wel something happened and the nerve explodedd or something. It was a sudden aweful pain. There was no bruising or bleeding but after that happened. i felt like i was dead.

Then for like 8 months plus i was totally impotent and in pain.
Somehow i survived and erections came back and the pain and discomfort diminished. Then later on.. now no pain when flacid But i'm left with 2 aweful things

1)Foreskin doesn't work normally anymore. So for example when i have night /morning erections OR i'm sexually aroused and get an erection, the foreskin goes back behind the head of the penis and it stays thereforever. When i was normal it would slide forward after the penis returned to flacid. But now it doesn't at all.

I have to make it slide forward. To do this i used to pull it in the beginning of my injury.. and that just hurt me. So i don't do it like that anymore.

The way i figured is just to bend my torso foward and also push the head of the penis so it forces the penis to shrink and then the foreskin eventurally slides forward. Well this is difficult though. it takes me anywhere from 1 minute to 20 minutes . Sometimes i can't do it at all and i just let the foreskin stay behind the head all day. WhICH is uncomfrotable.

BThe way, my condition may seem similar to Paraphyimosis, where the foreskin stays behind the head.. and Blows up and it can cause complications like gangreene. But luckly my foreskin problem is not that. It seems like the nerves in the foreskin got damage and while it doesn't work normally, as you saw..i have a technique and it works.

2) I do get aroused now, and my penis erects but when erect, Whenever i try to have masturbation, any little touch/pull/rub of the shaft hurtss soooooo bad like poking me with a knife in the penis. It's so aweful.

This is sad and there is no soultion so i know i will never be able to have sex in my life. Well at least not penetrative sex. I've not had a GF yet but if i did and it came to sex, i would have to say SOrry i can't.. and then my GF would suffer too.

I went to all the urologists and they couldn't help me

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Anyways, i'm 31 and My sex life is over?? how to cope???
I stil love women and sex, even though i will never be able to do it.

 

have you never seen a doctor for this?

 

yes i said it. i went to all the urologist in my city and they just didn't help me, they don't know how. It's not a common problem. it's very rare.

Some guys get Peyronie's which is where the penis bends to one side when erect, and it also causes pain. The doctors told me maybe my thing is Peyronies' minus the bent.... but they didn't really offer me solutions that actually work. They said vitamin E etc.. but that doesn't work. i tried it.

It's been 6 years already. so if something worked it woulve worked by now.

 

ooooh.. now i see where it says the part about the doctors

that sucks.. i'm out of ideas.

 

Two words -

Dick Splints

 

this guy is one of the best in canada..he is in ottawa...he answers e mails....

Dr. Eric Saltel

Ottawa, ON


Urologist
Ottawa Hospital - Civic Campus