How to Reveal your Impotence to a Future Girlfriend?

I dont have a GF and i've never had one. I'm 31 but shy so i've never had one. But let's say i have one in the near future.

HOw would i reveal that I'm impotent AND not just that, that i'm not impotent interms of no erections but rather from extreme pain. That means that unlike guys who are impotent and can have great sex using some medications(viagra etc), I can't be tugged, pulled, and i cant have penetrative sex.

By the way, caused from injury long years ago( i made a thread about it).
There's no solution from any urologist(i went to all) and even if there was, it would mean they would have to deglove me in a complex surgery and cut the nerves, etc.. And i'm not goona do that.

Since most guys dont have this problem, women can't imagine...can't understand this. And also most normal women, like nomal guys, want a normal sex life. And if i had a GF she would really suffer, and moreover if she was the kind of girl that loves sex, then she would probably leave me or something.

How should i tell girls about my problem?

I'm a nice person i would suffer alot for myself, but i have to accept my destiny and i would be willing to satisfy her and forget about me since i can't do it. Also, i believe tehre's other things we could do like kissing and touching and lots of foreplay. For me that would be awesome but i dont know about the girl. like i said, normal girls like normal sex potent guys and i'm sure they would be disappointed.

help

 

It's not always about the penis. Think of all those awesome lesbian relationships.

Also, I have had a very sexually satisfying relationship with a man who could not have intercourse due to genital birth defects.

If you find a loving person, they will love you for who you are and will cherish being made love to by you, however that has to happen.

 

for fuck sake, you can't use your dick, get the damn surgery!

why would you even want a girlfriend if you can't have sex with her?

maybe you should hook up with invisible soul...

 

Don't just tell any girl. When you find one thats worth it you tell her. If she sticks with you than shes a keeper and if not than.....fuck her. Thats all you can do.

 

The laundry doesnt wash itself

 

There is a solution for every problem, many solutions. Get the girlFriend first before considering there is a problem..................

 

I'd get the surgery.... why are you worried about the nerves being cut when you can't use it for anything as it is?

Regardless of that though... Be honest and open about it... Do you want to be with someone who doesn't accept you for who you are?

If you refuse to get it fixed, then you have to learn to live with it as a part of who you are.