Smooth things over so I can keep having the best sex of my life?

I'm dealing with a pretty unique situation and a little unsure of how to proceed.

Background information is definitely needed in this situation so bear with me, I'll get to the point as quick as possible.

A few days ago I went out with several acquaintances of mine and ended up fooling around with one of them back at his place, (Guy A). Nothing serious, just fun as far as I was concerned, but I knew that he wanted to have sex with me. I told him no because he has a reputation as a bit of a player and I didn't want to be another story. When I left everything was fine.

The next night I went out with the same group of acquaintances, I was invited out by Guy A and although he was hinting heavily that he wanted to sleep with me, I consistently shut down his advances. I ended up spending most of the night with guy A and his best friend and roommate (Guy B). Guy A from the first night was plastered, we ended up back at their place and I put guy A to bed. We had all been drinking quite a bit and I ended up in bed with Guy B, where I had truly the best sex of my entire life. It's important to note here that I am ridiculously submissive in bed or have begun to identify with D/s relationships, not something that I tell men about, but something I fantasize about constantly. Guy B was able to figure this out and as I said- best sex of my life. In the morning even after we were both sober the sex continued, and I really wasn't thinking about any sort of consequences because it was so great. Guy B mentioned several times that he would like to get together again. I had never planned to sleep with Guy B, it sort of just happened.

Fast forward 3 days and I haven't heard anything from Guy B and I'm finding out that Guy A is mad at me and not speaking with me, not sure I can blame him since I'm sure his ego is a little bruised, but, is there anyway for me to remedy this situation? I'd like to remain friendly with Guy A and not only want, but NEED that sort of sex with Guy B. I'd like to be able to apologize to Guy A and hopefully smooth things over but also set something up with Guy B, bu I'm really unsure of what to say to either of them...what's a girl to do???

 

Chances are, if Guy A was that upset, he will be invoking 'Bros before Hos' with Guy B and that's probably why you're not hearing back from him.

 

Yes, unfortunately I figured that much. Like I said I can't really blame him, I'd do the same if the situation was reversed with one of my girlfriends.

 

Guy B sounds like a fool for not wanting to hook up with you again

I wouldn't worry about it, his loss.

 

yeah, you exhibited the behavior i like to call "dumb bitch"

 

Hello there Guy A!!!

 

^lol yeah maybe, but for real - she gonna keep slumpin around to get with B?

that's like 'i don't care what these people think of me, i just wanna get fucked' -> hence dumb bitch

 

Um? I really don't care all that much what people think, I really just like sex, especially really ridiculously good sex and I'm not quite sure what's wrong with that

 

nothing is wrong with being a dumb bitch - do your thing

 

maybe we could agree to disagree and decide to rename dumb bitch behavior, as 'woman who wants to be in control of her sex life and have all the sex her little heart can desire' behavior. Deal?

 

How's about minimizing the pejoratives?

Cool beans.

 

get used to having sex at your place.

 

True free love means all parties are open and honest. You weren't. You also put yourself in a risky situation and you hurt someone. The best thing you can do to be happy in this situation is apologize to Guy A. There are lots of people who would be great sex partners for you. If B thought you were that good and worth it, he'll be back. No sense hurting anyone anymore.

 

And you know they been talking to each other as well. Who knows what they would have said.

 

that;s what i'm sayin.

you're tryin to be a little rat and go over to guy B's place, which happens to be as much of guy A's place.

if i was guy A i'd be tellin your snooty ass to gtfo and offer to fight B if he doesn't see the uncoolness of it

or you could be looking at a situation of guy A masturbating to you guys