Happily Married, Both Watch porn......

My wife and I have been Happily married for five years now, we have a great sex life, three kids, and are best friends too.
Heres the thing.... we both like to watch amateur porn, sometimes together, sometimes not. I like watching porn of my wife (that we made) or porn with women that look like my wife. I am 100% faithful to my wife, and i am turned on by every aspect of her. before she started work, we had sex every day. now she works 4 days and is off 3 days a week. she is too tired most of the time when she is working to have sex, but the 3 days she is off we have great sex all 3 days. on the 4 days she works I watch porn and masterbate. She gives me her worn panties because I like the smell of her, and I like to smell them when I masterbate. she does not know I masterbate every day she is at work. We also kinda have a thing where i would try to catch her watching porn and masterbating and we have sex when i catch her.

here is my question..... is it wrong for me to watch porn and masterbate on the days she is working?

 

Does she own your brain, your hands, your cock or your computer?

Obviously if you're at home wanking all day and doing nothing while she's earning all the money and working really hard, that's a different issue. It wouldn't be porn that was wrong in that case, it'd be your laziness and dependency.

If, however, you work equally hard and give just as much, and she watches porn in her spare time too, I don't see the issue.

 

No, I work more hours than she does, and make about the same amount. but yes, she does own my brain, my hands, and cock. because i gave these things to her.

 

No, you share those things with her. You can't give your brain to someone else. Sure, you can leave your mind open to them, sharing all its ins and outs (believe me, I'm in the closest and most loving relationship it's possible to have) but she can never own you. You scratch your arse and have a wash and go for a jog when your body wants it. You masturbate when your body wants it, too. There's only so much you can do before it becomes a matter of giving up your human rights, which is not what a relationship is about.

Porn in moderation can be a healthy outlet for normal sexual desires without meaning anything other than you're human with a libido. The very fact that you've worried about this issue shows that you love your partner very much.

 

How do you message on this darn site? I am suck a rookie...

 

I don't see any problems with it at all! It just sounds like you two have a healthy relationship

What does she do? 4 days on and 3 days off sounds possibly like a train driver, in which case I'm not surprised she's tired

 

I just find it bizarre that you'd even think it was. If you wife does't have a problem with you watching porn then she's not going to have a problems with you jadking off to it!

 

It sounds like you all have a very close sexual relationship. There is nothing wrong with masturbating or viewing porn while she is working! I do it while my guy is working. My boyfriend masturbates when I'm home(and gone) and I'm not in the mood. I like to watch. Sex drives are different, schedules are different, interests are different... it's ok, mannnn.

 

Call her on the telephone and tell her you are masturbating; I think the reason you feel your actions might be wrong is because you are keeping it a secret. Tell her you are thinking of her while you are doing it...........maybe she will come home and catch you doing it followed by a quicky for lunch.

 

I think that is a great idea as well!

 

It is not wrong at all. I do it too, but im getting sex on those working days too lol. I have a high drive.
Dont feel guilty. She is giving you her dirty knickers to wank with, its fine.

 

Not at all. It's a way to keep your sex life alive while she's working a lot. I think it's great actually. Especially if it keeps you attracted to your wife and not looking for another source of sex.