Everyday a few times a day when at home and not working., somedays it's how I wake him up. Last night I sucked him dry, was a good night. I made him shake.:2thumbsup: And this was after sex, after he has already cum.
I think the problem with this thread is that you are taking a specified problem and applying it to the general population. You are asking "can men ever get enough sex?", but my question to you would be "how much sex does your man actually get?" I'm assuming it really isn't 8 times a day. You should wear your chain mail more !
Very good points, and I have to agree with you about almost everything. It's a shame that the passion has to die down like that, but I think it happens to most couples-I'm almost twice my wife's age, and my libido is 10 times what hers is. Even with the arguments, we've never been able to get the frequency higher than once every week or two. But I have to say that she is really pretty tired most of the time from taking care of 3 young kids-so to an extent I do understand her lack of interest. And I have to say that my wife has a considerably sexier butt than the girl in my sig, so if she just walks by in her panties before she goes to bed, I just want to attack her, which she usually won't let me do Actually, I guess that the exception to this rule was my second wife, who was pretty much in the 'fuck me' mode most of the time. I could just walk up behind her while she was doing the dishes and kiss her on the neck, and within about 10 seconds she was like 'come on' and the clothes would come off and she was already soaking wet-even after our child was born and she was busy taking care of him. She even started squirting during that time and her orgasms just got deeper and stronger. I have to say that the sex with her was almost perfect-wish everything else had been.
Baby, I wouldn't just say 'yes'-I'd say "PLEEEZ!" And I know what you mean by rejection getting to your self-esteem-it's the same way with me and my wife when she constantly tells me no-and most of the time I've quit trying, too-it saves you a lot of frustration in the end. I really know how you feel.
For me sex is not about the quantity. If I have sex a lot of times that doesn't mean I am having enough sex. Sex is enough when it satisfies me...and i mean really SATISFY me. Don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that I am selfish about my own pleasure only. I don't consider it to be a good fuck until and unless both of us are fully satisfied. Enough sex to me is when there is real passion with loads of foreplay, not just dry humping. I suppose my partner needs to be really inhibited when having sex with me. All I am saying that even if you get to cum once in a night(ok that too less, lets make it twice) that is enough sex for me as long as the sex is aw-fuckin-some rather than 8 cums a day without any real passion.
I must be the one odd man out. I enjoy it, but don't think about it constantly, never have, not even as a teen. Even when on pure testosterone treatment-no change. So if sex is somewhere other than on the top of your list, I'm your guy.