I`m really a 6!

That`s what I give myself on the beauty-scale.

Though I run the risk of sounding arrogant, since I`m still putting myself above the average, I must say this is humbling for me, and sort of a relief...I`ll explain:

Until very recently, I used to ignore women who were 5 and below on the beauty scale, to the point in which they could hit on me with all their might and I still told myself, "I`m never hit on."

I only truly felt hit on when, by some miracle of destiny, an 8 or 9 hit on me (which, was mostly cockteasing; I know you bitches! )...that`s because I thought of myself as an 8, especially when under the influence of alcohol.

Then, I would feel resentful and blame women for being superficial and only wanting money (which is their prerogative); when I was doing exactly the same thing to the uggos that was done to me by the hot chicks! But, I was in denial...

The beauty-scale is somewhat subjective, it seems to me; but not as subjective as all that. The fact is, 7s are a challenge for me to pick up. 5s and below will tolerate any goddamn flaw I might have, and any unattractive behavior or mistreatment on my part...

8-10s are almost impossible to pick up, unless I pay; or compensate for it some kind of way...namely, status and smarts.

I`m still new to considering men as romantic options, but I went to a LBGT club the other night, and the exact same thing happened as it does with women. So, this is not about gender...!

The real cute boys looked away when I tried locking eyes; the guys I would consider slightly above average in looks treated me nicely, but without putting me on a pedestal; and the uggos drooled. :2thumbsup:

So, there`s some science behind my beauty score. :love:

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What`s surprising about this is how liberated I feel that I`m no longer trying to bat above my league. I almost feel like it`s a recipe for happiness in a relationship:

a) take whatever number you think you are minus 2;

b) try to pick up somebody 2 notches below that, and start going up;

c) whenever you are friendzoned, that`s when they are out of your league.

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Does that mean you can never pick up above your league? NO. I have, and more than once or twice. But, considering the number of partners I have had, statistically, they were very rare cases, as well they should.

This way, I can avoid being self-entitled and resentful, and avoid the embarrassment of calling someone "superficial", who`s got every right to be so.

What`s your score on the beauty scale?

 

i'm a 9 and i still get turned down all the time

 

4.20

 

I'm a 20. My husband is a 10, but he's getting plastic surgery soon to bring him up to par. He's also filthy rich, so I can handle the differences in our appearance (for now).

 

According to the happiness formula (9-4= 5), I would assign you a fiver as pick up homework.

 

Ugh, committed people don`t count. Nobody cares about your number, you`re destined to never pick up anyone again (think leprosy). Wrong thread. This thread is for meat market sluts only. :sunny:

 

i don't think of myself as a number - it changes from month to month physically and nearly daily by the way i think...

i'd say i'm above average but my mindset often makes me an ugly person :\

 

I used to think in those terms a lot. It's pretty stupid really. I was pretty inconsistent with my ratings, and it's like, there's no point to it, really. Because once I stopped thinking about who was out of my reach, the bitchez came runnin'. So yeah. Confidence is key, and quantifying exactly how out of your reach these girls are really can't be helping.

 

i don't know how to rate males. women's tastes are too random. i think i look really good, but that's probably not the majority opinion.

 

thats pretty high

:tree:

 

HAHA! I can't believe you RANKED yourself. Since you asked though, I'd say I'm a 7. I guess.

 

I agree but I think my mindset is a better aspect of me, I didn't put that into play though.

 

Im a sexy beast..and that's all anyone needs to know.

 

Ehhh I would say I'm a low to mid 6....

 

The more science, the less you score.

 

Really?

So, I want you guys who say confidence and dress are more important than looks to honestly think (for yourselves; you don`t have to impress me :biggrin how many 10s actually threw themselves at them and had sex with them in their lifetimes who were not after your $$ or status.

I can honestly say that, I have only had two 8s do that, that I can remember. There were a couple of opportunities with 9s that I would think I missed (you have to be in your absolute A game with them, they won`t wait around; too much competition) so they don`t count because you don`t know who`s cockteasing until you fuck them.

Ignore all the coulda, shoulda, woulda and think of how many women who look like Scarlett Johansson (or, whatever your hottest celebrity is) you have actually fucked and in relation to your total number of partners.

Now, I`ve been with 9s and 10s. I think I`ve even made one cum. But, I didn`t go the traditional dating route with them.

lol!

Edit: You don`t have to answer to this post; this should be a private thought exercise.

 

plastic surgery is for idiots
by then so is Charlotte

 

I rate myself as not giving a shit. If I met anyone who had a numerical system for rating physical attractiveness I'd be more concerned about their lack of other things to do than about which number they put me at.

Ps. I'm only criticising because I'm a 10 and therefore too good for you.

 

You just won the award for most superior poster.

 

I do pretty much love myself.