Ask women anything

Well this thread was on myspace forums and there being closed down so I need somewhere else to aks women things.

If you don't fancy a guy and he asks you out how do you think about how your rejection will affect him. Do you care or sometime or never. Are yuou always flattered or does it piss you off. In short what's it like to know somone like or even loves you?

 

If a guys asked me out but I wasn't interested in him well it really depends on the circumstances.

If it was somebody I knew and a friend type thing I would try to let them down nicely type thing, even if I didn't know them. Unless the guy was being a dick at a club type thing then I might be a bitch.

When you know another person is attracted to you it is pretty nice. It can give you a little bit of a confidence boost type thing.

I think everyone likes hearing that they are lusted/liked/loved after.

 

"Chin up big fella"

 

aaahhh haa a loop hole!!!
you have failed to consider the average bell end from the internet!

hey baby... fancy a fuck???

 

LOL

You got me there. I'll give ya credit for that one!!

 

so the death of myspace is becoming more official? i kind of wondered why they still exist at this point.

 

idk i ask this frikkin hot girl out lik two weeks ago. she end up turn me down but we talk pretty good now

 

that's the worst. i'd much rather get a straight rejection than a "no, but we're best buddies now that i know i can influence you."

 

Have you ever know a guy liked him and hoped he'd ask you out but he never did and why didn't you do something or do more to try and get him to ask you out?

 

Another. In general do you think guys are more in awe of women than women are more in awe of guys and is this why it's incumbent on men to try and win a woman rather than the other way round?

 

I'd always imagined that's pretty much the case with most women but a lot of the prettier women that wouldn't be the case 'cause they've had a lot of looks and attention from guys. How often do you feel a guy is looking at you and lking/lusting/ after or even loves you?

 

People still seriously use mySpace?

 

I do now you smooth talking bastard.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Originally Posted by The Imaginary Being
hey baby... fancy a fuck???

Would you 2 stop it.....

 

lol.. i know

 

This isn't the case in my experience. Certainly not for me. I've been in quiet awe of men since I reached adolescence, and so have all the other straight women I've known.

I think men are more likely to display their awe...their awe is also more likely to be based on superficial factors like the fact that a girl has good legs or a nice cleavage. I, on the other hand, am in awe when a man fixes a bike, reads a good book or displays an act of kindness, but not so much when a handsome or athletic man appears.

Men generally try to win women because of evolutionary drives- pure human biology. This is of course a gross oversimplification, but in biological terms, men have far less to lose should they get into an unsuccessful pairing. Each sexual encounter puts a potential 9 month pregnancy strain and 10+ year motherhood strain on the woman (these days, an 18 year+ strain). The man has the option of abandonment without consequences (at least he did before the invention of child support)...the woman does not (at least she did not before the invention of abortion) She must carry and nurture his genes. Women generally will therefore seek an emotionally stable pairing with a man who is likely to prove a reliable father, or at least who carries appealing genes.

Men, on the other hand, are actually winners in evolutionary terms as long as they are impregnating women, which should in theory lead to men being the less fussy gender.

But of course none of this necessarily dictates what people are actually doing or thinking in the world right now in the slightest. As we now have birth control, many women are choosing to indulge in casual relationships and forego motherhood altogether. Many men also seek stability and want nothing more than fatherhood. Similarly, many men are in awe of intelligence and are very picky about who they sleep with. There are many shades of grey for both genders. Evolutionary drives musn't be confused with the choices people make and what they actually want. They just help to give a bit of background, and may give a hint about why men traditionally pursue women more often than vice versa.

 

I get looked at all the time. It's awesome. Sometimes it'll be unsettling, but more often it's one of those things I either shrug off or feel good about.

In terms of love, I don't know. I assume only my partner has loved me in the romantic sense.

 

I think everyone likes hearing that they are lusted/liked/loved after.[/QUOTE]

Consider yourself lusted after by yours truly

 

So even though your with someone you still it still effects you when you can tell a guy is looking at you? Jeez! No wonder guys get the wrong idea. I'd have thought if you were in a serious relatinship you wouldn't get a shit about if some other guy was looking at you unless on some level you were thinking if someone better came along you'd leave the guy you're with.

 

How often do I feel a guy looking at me and having an attraction to me. Well there are times walking down the street and I can see guys checking me out. I shrug it off or hold my head up high and let them look lol.

I wouldn't say ppl look at me too often tho, I'm sure with 2 kids in tow I'm not that sexy lol:2thumbsup:

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