Ejeculating before breaking the hymen (First time sex)

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by user193, Jul 31, 2011.

  1. user193

    user193 Guest

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    I am 20 and I am virgin. Me and my gf (age:19) tried having sex yesterday. I used condom and tried it but when the penis was about to break the hymen I had ejeculation. She is still virgin. The hymen didn't break. I tried again after 2 hours but the same thing happened.

    Why I had the ejeculation? Is this a bad sign? Actually I did some foreplay before that and I am a smoker. Is that the reason?

    What should I do? How can I recover?
     
    user193, Jul 31, 2011
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    get your dick hard and try again..

    slip the condom over the penis, same way you did the previous 2 times..
     
    deleted, Jul 31, 2011
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  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    over-excitement is expected in a male when having sex after a long time without, let alone the first time.
    Often, having an ejaculation beforehand slows the male down a bit.

    I do hope you are using lubricant for your partner. It helps in a female's first time.
     
    drumminmama, Aug 8, 2011
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  7. suspa555

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    Oh my god! I never knew such things do happen. Is it worth worrying? Is this related to premature ejaculation? Who is to be blamed? The male or the female
     
    suspa555, Aug 18, 2011
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  9. xox

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    what he said, its over-excitement. try again and you will be fine
     
    xox, Oct 19, 2011
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  11. WootMaster

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    Basically, if you masturbate before you have sex and wait about 10 minutes...You'll be able to go longer...

    You'll be less sensitive and the boys have to reload anyways...so it will give you more time!
     
    WootMaster, Oct 19, 2011
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