Ask women anything

No. You sound pretty obsessed with men checking women out. We do actually have lives you know. Fleeting little moments where strangers find you attractive are just that-fleeting moments. We don't find the nearest toilet and have a furious wank, and personally I have never been aroused by this kind of admiration...I've just felt good that someone found me pretty, then got on with my day.

 

I know. People tell me all the time...a heterosexual guy who's attracted to and curious about women...It's almost like I'm a freak of nature or something!

 

men are only curious as to what a girls tits look like

we lie about everything else

in order to see the aforementioned tits.

 

You keep going on about the psychological aspects as if women are always getting horny from you looking at them and that means they're cheating on their partners emotionally or some shit. Sort yourself out.

 

If you think you'll stop looking at other women just because you are in love, you don't know much about your programming. My wife and I are in a committed, long term, monogamous relationship, and you know what my wife's rules are for my relationship with other women? "You can look but don't touch." Sure, the first four years or so she was the only woman on my mind. But after that, I guess I was used to seeing her. It's genetically programmed into my body; I notice other women, and the better they look the more I notice them.

 

I have a question for women. Which is more important to you, Love or Money? For instance, if you go out with a guy who looks good and you really feel a connection with him, and you find out he has no job and lives in his parent's basement, is there going to be a second date? In this hypothetical situation, the guy is old enough to have graduated college and have a job and live on his own.

 

Well, I've been married almost 50 years and I still look. I think that is programmed into a guy, women...I'm not so sure.

Upthread someone mentioned that women look for stability while men look for umm.. looks

I never thought I would get married until I met my wife. At first it was me doing the chasing and she playing all hard to get, then I disappeared for a week and didn't tell her anything about where I was going and then she was then all hot after me, asking my folks where I went, etc. I only disappeared to find out if she really cared...and she did.

We've been pretty honest with each other since then though I don't think anyone ever tells everything to another person.

My take is guys are in it for the sex and women are in it for the long haul. For myself it worked out pretty good. I actually feel that my wife loves me more than I love her, but that's just a feeling, not sure if it's true.

Just mho.

 

I've thankfully known very few women who would say "money". Love comes above everything. If you're truly in love with a man it doesn't matter where he lives or what's in his wallet. I'd honestly live in a shed with my partner for as long as it took. There was a time when both of us had very little, and I was travelling 8 hours regularly for a few snatched hours with him. We built our life together.

 

If the guy doesn't have the same work ethic I have, whether he works like a fiend all day in his parents' yard for a hot meal or is a physician, he's not worth my time.

I dated a guy for awhile, and while he lived at home, when he finishes his school, he'll earn a lot of money. He's also arrogant and lazy. He's never mowed a yard or waxed a car. The slothfulness frequently associated with not working is a big deal-breaker.

 

So I think what you are saying is it really is a lack of ambition rather than a lack of money that is a big turn off. So many men complain that all a woman wants is money, when the fact is she really wants to see her guy have some ambition and creativity. I say creativity because it really goes in hand with ambition.

 

yeah. Maybe you've got that wrong. I've not said anything like that. I've said I'd be like that or might be like that apart from that I've just asked questions.

 

that leads to another question. Don't women fall for men just for who they are?

 

well of course they wouldn't say it. they tend to say they want a nice guy with a sense of humor...

oh yeah, and they also say "be yourself."

 

Women who don't wear make-up...why do somoene women not wear make up?

 

because makeup is stupid looking

 

make up can be such a pain in the ass.

 

a better question, why do some women wear makeup?

 

Strip down some women you see these days....

fake tans
fake nail
push up bras
fake hair even with extenions
make up



What do you have after that.......

 

hopefully a wet pussy

 

EXACTLY! If a guy busts his rear end working on his art or his lawn-mowing business, who cares if he's not rich? Any fool can have money. Real work ethic is a rarity.

Money can be a symbol people have worked hard, but it's not the only one, or even the most likely one.