Does anyone else look for people that you thinkk you are 'in the same league' with and if you see somone then feel you might have a chance with them. HOw does this whole idea of how good or bad looking you are manifest itself in how you think about who you might be compatible with? I mean I know I'm not good looking so there's no way a pretty woman is going to touch me with a barge pole and even if she did then I wouldn't feel we could really bond and appreciate each other in a very deep and profound way 'cause she'd know she could always get a good lookinig guy so when I meet a woman I don't think is 'technically pretty' so to speak I actually feel we might be compatable. I even think some women I've been most besotted with are actually ugly or as ugly as I am...a bit ugly. Obviously I wouldn't say that and don't like to think it but we all know if were good looknig or not and I'm interested in how people view the partners they've had if like me you feel you're a bit ugly. Obvioulsy people who are good looking or think they are should ignore this thread.
I feel ya. There are some girls i wouldn't even try and hit on. They would just bat me away like a fuckem mouse
nope. i don't bother with BS like that. there's no such thing as 'in the same league'. pretty much the only thing i'm picky about is the age. i'm mostly into guys more less my age. that's about it.
yeah, kind of. i'm damn good looking, but i'm socially awkward so i really don't have a chance with most women that look as good as me.
Pretty women are great to walk hand-in-hand with at malls, but they suck in bed. What`s the point of having a pretty face if it`s going to frown and twist when giving me a blow job? I only fuck women 6 and below. Pretty women are to me a last resort when I`m really backed up on that old oil change. :biggrin: @OP: I think you`re on the right track. Peace out.
So you fancy your chances with any guy? You don't think when some ugly guy comes on to you 'jeez! There's no way this guy is in my league?' maybe you don't think about it in those terms but if think you're 'no oil painting' then you wouldn't expect a handsome guy to fall for you would you? So you'd have to gauge your expectations and if you met a handsome guy then you'd be running the risk of looking foolish if you entertained hopes of him falling for you.
Looks may be important but to divide people in leagues because of their looks is something I do not want to be part of at all. Happily I haven't worried about such subjective categorizations since my puberty. I pity the peeps who still dwell in this foolishness after their adolescence though. Leagues in looks are totally fictional and applied by morons and you should never limit others or yourself because superficial retards point out they're in a different 'league' as you. Nothing wrong with some superficial thoughts of course, we're human after all. But I wouldn't let those of others influence your perception of 'pretty people' and what your chances are with them.
I've honestly never thought anything of the sort, and I've never had a problem getting interest. If I was single (I'm in a loving relationship with someone I didn't judge in those kinds of terms) I would talk to anyone who took my fancy and see if he was interested or whether or not we hit it off. If not, so what? It wouldn't necessarily say anything about my looks in general...everyone has different tastes. I've never experienced being turned down though...maybe it's because I'm confident and laid back, or maybe I'm a stunner. To be honest I don't really care...what I care about is feeling good and being with someone I find amazing. I'm very glad it wasn't all numbers and scores and leagues when I met my partner...that would have been a major turnoff, if he was such a pussy he'd rated his own looks and my own and felt we somehow couldn't be together because of a difference in value. What a load of shallow bullshit. And if I don't find a guy attractive it doesn't mean I've given him a rank or thought I was better than him or anything. It just means I don't find him attractive. I'm sure to some the same guy would be beautiful.
exactly. we all have people we find attractive and others that we don't. and it's perfectly natural. i have found guys that i've thought were amazingly beautiful, and have other people disagree. and vice versa, others have found some men attractive that to me look completely dull. it's how it is.
