So it was a bit of a social night in church, and I had to use the washroom. I seemed to have picked a busy time to have to pee, because a few other guys were headed in at the same time. I made my way over to one urinal, and one of the guys took the other. Maybe I was standing unusually far back, but the guy kept staring over at me. THe first time I thought he was just noticing my presence, but after he did it a few more times, it became clear he was looking at my penis. I frankly did not care, and just kept peeing. I don't care if I get scared at because males tend to be curious about how their penis sizes comapre, and the urinal is a place that offers potential for comparison. I soon finished, and the guy and his friends left the washroom, and he never commented to me about my cock. No one ever does, so not unexpected. I had a few thoughts once i realized what was going on. The first was that I was concerned my stance at the urinal could be offending him. I admittedly stand a little farther back so I don't piss on myself. But I did wonder because although I was farther back, I did not realize i was far back enough that the guy could actually see my cock, even if I didn't care that he could. And another thing I wondered was that although I have been stared at at the urinal a few times before, I would never expect it in church. Thoughts?
by using the word "cock" you just admitted that you were exposing yourself on purpose some people would beat the shit out of you for doing that where children could be present
Huh??? Does the word "cock" have some sexual connotation I don't know about? I wasn't trying to expose myself, and like I said, until the guy started gawking, I had no idea my penis was even visible...
you asked for thoughts...you received my thoughts read them if you wish or feel free to skip over and wait for other replies ..and yes..using the word cock ..or others like wang dick meatstick etc... leads me more to believe you were actually excited to be exposing yourself and are looking for sexual replies someone who would be actually asking if this situation was normal would have just used the word penis again..just my thoughts and that line suggests you do this often...
Oh I wasn't insulted, just confused as to why you read the situation as you did. As as for that one line, well, I meant in reference to other times that I have been noticeably stared it. Those who stare, when my penis is visible, don't comment, not that it's something I would ever really want to happen. And as for standing farther back, I do it all the time, and it's just a couple of inches farther back than most males to avoid pissing on myself. It's not as if I'm standing halfway across the room. I know I'm not gay, but the other guy was a stranger, so I have no idea about him.
or on the walls or in the sinks or run around trying to piss on anybody who comes into the bathroom....soon enough people will just think its common behavior and wont even think a thing about it.
You honestly don't expect to run into any homosexual people in church? Is that because the church is holy and noone like that should enter, or what?
Actually, that's not it at all. Staring at a guy's penis while at the urinals is typically considered very bad etiquette. Now in most public washrooms, one can encounter all kinds of people, at it is therefore not reasonable to have anyt expectations of what might happen. However, Christians generally pride themselves on being very moral people. Regardless of how deserved that reputation is, the fact they would think of themselves that way would prompt me to believe they would try to gollow matters of etiquette wherever possible, and that would mean doing as is customary and not staring at another guy at the urinals. It really caught me off guard, as it felt like just the wrong time and place for that. But i guess I can look on the bright side. The fact that he looked over and stared so intently means that my penis must be at least of fairly decent size.
Glad to have brightened your day....I encourage such behavior for everyone...makes for a much more interesting world