Ok, I am female and just wanted to ask a general question that may be too general for you to make a judgement but I will give it a shot. I have had my female co-worker and I am female too...both of us are married...one day when she was walking by me in a busy hallway at work, say something quickly like is it me or...(and I cannot remember what she said) but she asked some question that was work related..and when she walked by me her breast ran up agains my back... then yesterday as she was leaving ..she asked me how work was going and took her hand and sort of caressed my back for like 5 seconds....i told her how it was going and then she has winked at me several times and that could be a friendly gesture too I realize but i dont know. i dont know her to well because I just started at this job maybe 3 weeks ago...what are your thoughts..am i just observant or ??
sounds like she likes you - if u like her also then you should be nice back; but of course you should maybe take it slow if you have just started working there, in case she has another agenda. Goid luck, Simon :sunny:
Does it sound like she is just and only being friendly??? Or "like" me in what way? Just as a friend/co-worker or does it seem more than that? We are both married with kids?
I am not bi, gay or lesbian, I think just curious...I think she is somewhat attractive..but we are both married. Do you think she is just being friendly? Or is this more than just friendly?
I dont think i will try putting my hand on hers or anything... I am not interested in her....I really just wanted to know if I am looking into it too much or if she really was trying to make a pass at me...she asked me how i was doing today and as she walked by she put her hand right above my waist on my side as she walked by but it was in passing so she only held it there for a couple seconds and almost like she could have put it off that she was just trying to get through the hall but I dont know..she just gets alittle close sometimes..a little..but maybe she is just touch feely?
She might like you and she might just be testing the waters so to speak. Nonetheless I think the big issue here is that your married, even if you do confirm that she's interested in you I think it would only be right to discuss it with your husband. Infidelity is infidelity regardless if it happens with a member of the same sex... if you love your husband you'll respect his feelings regardless of your "curiosity". Who knows he may tell you to have at it
I'd be really hesitant to get involved with someone I work with if I were you. I've done it before and it almost never turns out well. Especially since, in this case, you are both married.
