Submission in a Blowjob

I'm a guy and naturally I like getting head. For me a major part of the thrill is watching my girlfriend submit to me. I do believe in love making, but I think that vaginal sex and mutual masturbation etc are more the "route" to this.

I sorta feel like blow jobs without the submission are a "why bother." If she doesn't want to kneel, suck, and swallow, then we should choose something else.

(Please don't mistake this for sexism. I don't exactly feel like the alpha male when I've got my head buried between my girlfriend's legs).

 

pinch her nose..

 

I actually think performing oral is an act of dominance. Ultimately, I'm the one in control of him cumming. However I'm naturaly a sub, so I like when my man plays on it during oral and otherwise.

 

Really? I feel awesome in that position. I've got her delicious pussy right in my face, I can do whatever i want to it, finger her, lick her, jump up and fuck her. I'm in control. I decide when she cums, what kind of pleasure she gets, whether or not I tease her or finger bang her to oblivion.


I've had blowjobs where I am dominant and blowjobs where she is dominant. I honestly prefer the latter; I don't have to worry about whether I'm gonna hurt her, as she is doing the work, and she goes WILD with power and really takes me for a ride. Also, don't ever kid yourself that you are truly dominant during a blowjob . . . it's your cock versus her teeth . . . i hope you never have to find out how quickly you can become a crying little bitch when your cock is in her mouth and she's on her knees and you feel like such a big man feeling dominant while a girl is going down on you is part of the gift of a nice blowjob, but it's not the state of nature

 

bite me.

 

I feel like it's both ways. I feel submission when I go down on her. She never asks, just pushes my head down toward it. Once I get her warmed up it's like dominance since I'm in control of making her have an orgasm.

 

I bite.

 

I'm in a pretty delicate position I think I'm more submissive

 

That's interesting that a lot of people feel that giving head is a dominant role. I always felt that having your head down in someone's junk was a little on the submissive side.

 

My girlfriend rolls on to my back, blows me and swallows when I shoot my load. The only submission is on my part.

 

I am a bi male and love a good blow job . If I an in the mood to give I lke to be have him take charge . I have place a man hand on the back of my head as i suck him to let him know what I want