No Orgasms

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by HisChelsea63, Nov 15, 2011.

  1. HisChelsea63

    HisChelsea63 Guest

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    OK so im am at a total loss.
    My bf and i have been together for 5 years. Our sex use to be GREAT but within the past few months or so it totally died. We have sex maybe once a month. There is NOO foreplay on his end but i will give him bjs or hjs. Then when we have sex i last maybe 5 min (no lies or exaggeration) and its always the same. I tried changing things but it doesnt work. I haven't had an orgasm in almost a year. I talked to a few girls he was with before me and they said he was amazing, lasted for a while and there was allot of orgasms.
    Is it me? What do i do? :confused:
     
  2. O.W.L

    O.W.L Member

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    you mean he goes quickly? if so...maybe he just finds you that attractive..
     
  3. HisChelsea63

    HisChelsea63 Guest

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    That does somewhat make sense but it only started a few months ago..why the sudden change?
     
  4. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    he doesnt love you anymore
     
  5. HisChelsea63

    HisChelsea63 Guest

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    ......u think so... he acts like he still does...
     
  6. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    well you used the right word....''act''...if he isnt rocking your world but does have the ability to rock your world...means he doesnt love you anymore...sorry
     
  7. HisChelsea63

    HisChelsea63 Guest

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    ............the deeper i look into it its either that or he went bak to his cheating ways
     
  8. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    they are the same thing,no?.....he has you all warped...look at your user name....denotes ownership.....


    do it fast
    like a band aid
    good luck
     
  9. HisChelsea63

    HisChelsea63 Guest

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    my name isnt chelsea. i got my username from a song nd the numbers represent my grandmother
     
  10. BonzaiLLC

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    why would you need to talk to girls that had been with him before if you've been together for 5 years?! that doesn't make sense to me. :confused:
     
  11. MikeE

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    What happened "a few months ago"?

    Did he get a new job, a promotion?
    Is someone close sick?
    Did you move?
    Is he a Texas Rangers fan?

    What happened in his life a few months ago? That's where I'd look for clues to his changed behaviour.
     
  12. BitterAsTheCud

    BitterAsTheCud Member

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    Handcuff him to the bed, then get on top!
     
  13. Twiz

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    Im sorry bout that.
     
  14. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I? Thats a big slip isnt it?

    You are the boyfriend arent you? getting online as the persona of your girlfriend, getting feedback that way

    The persona: You are 20, been together since 15 and you say you've been talking to the girls he was with before, so at 14, which would have just been a clumsy awkward mess so talking to them would be useless.

    Or you are talking of the ones since then, i.e the ones he's cheated on you with. You expect us to believe a girl would talk to the girls he's cheated with and ask them how he was in bed? No girl is going to do that, cos it would just be one bitchfest.



    So basically you are really asking why, after 5 years, over the last year you only get it once a month, then last 5 mins, she's not really interested anymore. I'm assuming she's around the same age, so 20, switch has gone on, becoming a woman now, think about men rather than boys, assesing guys as future husbands and ultimately what kind of sons she will get. These previous girls you asked said you were amazing so you wouldnt sulk


    That would make a lot more sense. Your post doesnt, it doesnt sound like its coming from a girl. And the fact you would do that is a big clue as to why you are having trouble, she still sees you as a little boy....time to man up
     
  15. Mexicanita420

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    tell him what the problem is,if he doesnt change then there is something to look into
     

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