A while back I tried a glory hole ad I found on craigslist. The ad was for a 26 year old girl to suck my dick while she was under a sheet in a dark room. I went, it was good, all fine. Recently on a different site I find the same girl, set up to meet again, this time for anal. I get to the location, but apparently too soon and I catch her walking around, notice board shorts, sneakers and fairly manly legs. I back out and go home, find an email there asking what happened. I ask if they are a man, they admit to it. So this brings me to the point of the topic, have you ever had a situation like this, how did it make you feel/would make you feel? For me I'm not sure how to react, the first blowjob was fine, learning it was a guy doesn't really upset me, what I'm not sure how to feel about is that he still wants to do stuff and I'm now confused.
do whatever makes you happy man. If you are not at all into dudes let him know. But to be honest i do not think the craigslist sex scene is very safe. Be careful out there bud.