So i generally dont have too many issues cumming as long as i have clitoral stimulation. but i would really like to experience female ejaculation. i feel like i get really close, but never quite get there. does anyone have any tips??? help me experience bliss!!!! :love: :sunny:
I'm a guy, but try to focus just on the sensations & pleasure rather than the end goal... if you have a mind-blowing orgasm but don't ejaculate it's not failure, just a mind blowing orgasm and what's wrong with that? Also there is a possibility that even with a 'G-spot orgasm' that you might not expel fluid, my understanding is not every woman is physiologically capable of actual fluid ejaculation (someone please correct me if I'm wrong). Either way being able to be in the moment and immersed in the pleasure is key IMO.
I wish I could tell you how really, It is just a release, but fuck I tell ya makes bedtime messy. Last night biggest wet spot ever,
If you're talking about achieving it with a partner, make sure he's attentive and listens...most men are so shit with sexual issues and are more concerned with their own satisfaction...I find it so much more satisfying pleasing a woman. You need a lovely long foreplay build up, plenty of constant clitoral stimulation and g spot stimulation. Try reverse cowgirl so you can be fucked whilst your boobs are played with and your clit rubbed.
i've noticed that every guy on hipforums is the only guy in the world who has any interest in pleasing a woman. i can only conclude that every guy on hipforums is actually the same person.
My girlfriend doesn't actually shoot fluids, but there is usually a huge wet spot under her after she orgasims. Basically as said above, Relax and don't think about it, just let it happen. If you try to hard, it will not happen. Confidence and relaxation are key. Clear your mind, feel beautiful, and be confident.
Is squirting sort of like delaying orgasm in guys? Like a lot of guys who don't normally shoot their load but a few inches can get it to shoot across a room if they delay it enough times.
The most intense squirting I ever experience involved a Chick who was into fisting, not the typical fast and furious lesbo-video stuff with a closed palm, but open handed and slow in addition to clitoral stimulation (of course my hands are kinda big), Must have been nearly a liter of Girlie goo.
Your guy needs to set a relaxing scene...giving the girl an oily massage whilst we're both naked has always worked for me...touching her all over so she feels attractive. Then I gradually slide myself into her and have slow and passionate sex for a while. Then turn her around, slide two fingers in and do a 'come to me' motion gently at first, then a bit firmer until you find how she likes it...then I start simultaneously licking sucking her clit just how she likes it...if this isn't enough, whilst rubbing her g-spot with the 'come to me' motion, gently push down on the area from outside the stomache with your other hand...this has lead to me making 3/4 girls squirt that had never done so before.
I think i'm addicted to squrting since I learned how to bring myself off that way. First thing is I go to the bathroom to empty my bladder, that way I can really relax and enjoy myself without the worry that there might be some pee in the mix. Purely because I am totally fascinated with the quantities of ejaculate that I can produce! (And the distances I manage to squirt too. ) I get myself comfortable, on the bed, in my favourite armchair, wherever I feel the urge. (I'm making up for lost time, having only just found this foolproof way to bring myself off .) I aply a bit of lubrication if necessary, although usually I'm wet enough just with the thought of what's about to happen. I massage my clit, I guess the action would be different for everyone, but I do what works for me, after a minute or two, I insert three fingers into my vagina and curl them up to massage my G-spot, it's on the front wall of the vagina and feels quite spongy, it's around an inch or so wide, and a little longer than that. I find that up and down pressure works for me, plus stroking. I can feel it swell and feel the pressure building up. I remove my hand and start playing with my clit again, and before long I'm squirting like Niagara Falls, sometimes it feels like I'm never going to stop, it is a mind-blowingly awesome way to pleasure myself, I only wish I'd discovered this sure fire way years ago. I have been able to ejaculate ever since experimenting back in the 90s after seeing a sex program on tv. But never with such regular success until just recently. My sex-life is so pleasurable again, since divorcing last year I've been single, missing the excellent sex-life we had, but now, not so much, I think I actually prefer solo-play. L
I suspect your partners are trying to get you there by going too deep. See if you can get him to back up a bit, and experiment with different angles until he is nudging just the right spot(s) inside.
Yesterday I had for fingers from one one thrusting in and our of her pussy vibrating her upper wall with two finger thrusting her lower walls from my other hand. She was using a small vibrator on her clit. It was amazing. She squirted and screamed so loud. I then inserted my member and fucked her ofr about fifteen minutes before I emptied my load in her. Not possible to count how many times she came but her pussy was so stretched and wet it was unreal. I then ate her out, grabbed some cum and dropped it inher mouth!