sometimes I think I'm gay

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by missfontella, Dec 12, 2004.

  1. missfontella

    missfontella Mama of Da Assassins

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    because I hate men so much

    and have a much better time with girls



    but then I think about sex with a girl and I'm completely turned off



    and I think that's a requirement
     
  2. nest

    nest Member

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    im sure there are some guys out there u could REALLY DIG.... maybee emotional spiritual men that give a chick more of a bonding vibe... i dunno what turns you off about guys, because im sure its not something that EVERY guy has commen.
     
  3. ThickSmoke

    ThickSmoke Member

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    just because you hate men doesnt mean your gay. it means you've had bad luck so far. but if you are actualy atracted to girls then you are probably gay. Dont give up on men & become a sterotypical man-hating dike.
     
  4. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    Oh man I love you woman =D You made me smile
     
  5. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Guy Above Me is a retard
    If you don't like men than either start talking to better men or start screwin' chicks, then what Guy Above Me said would make sense. Good luck on finding it out and if you opt for solution number two please send me pictures. Damn I didn't want my horny side to show in this post.
     
  6. authority?

    authority? Member

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    how can you hate men if you don't know every man?

    i mean what have i done that you would hate me?

    you know it's this kinda stuff that really gets on my nerves, and then women complain that men are stereotypes......

    no offense to anyone btw.
     
  7. t-dub

    t-dub Members

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    i agree.... not all men are created the same sweetie!! :D you just havnt found the right one... trust me... you will know when you have [​IMG]
     
  8. monosphere

    monosphere Holly's Hubby

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    Well, if the guys on the east coast aren't doing anything for ya, then maybe you should come out to the west coast and check some of us out.

    But in all seriousness, we're not ALL jerks. There are a few good ones out there. Dont' give up hope.
     
  9. DarkLunacy

    DarkLunacy Senior Member

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    WTF are you talking about? How the hell does that make me mentally deficient. The thread amused me.
    "but then I think about sex with a girl and I'm completely turned off"
    How is that not funny?
     
  10. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

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    Miss F, I'm guessing you mean you have a better time in the company of girls, not that you prefer sex with them, because the second part of your post indicates you can't get down with having sex with them and it grosses you out to think of it.

    I'm just thinking that the guys you've allowed yourself to be with have just been the typical jerks, and that the pool from which you've been picking them -- and maybe the reasons for which the guys you've picked have qualified -- were destined to leave you with jerks. You've been on here kinda boasting about your freewheeling sexual exploits; I myself have been critical of them, and that attitude, but aren't we seeing that apart from the sex at the time, they didn't get you what you would eventually be satisfied with?

    I guess maybe every guy thinks that he would actually be the greatest guy for any girl, and of course for some that'd be true and for others the idea is laughable. So if I were to say something along the lines of how I would be so much better than the guys you've been with, you could write that off as me just being biased in my own favor. But objectively, I am not like the guys you've described, in that when I am involved with a woman, I put her first, and dote on her, and give myself sincerely, and don't fuck around on her, or play games... I'm not saying, "Pick me!" but I am saying you should be looking for guys who clearly are like what I described. Not the "tough homie gangsta" guy that all the girls seem to think are so cool these days.
    Good luck.

    Remember, sex is not a necessity. Orgasm may be, but not sex. Masturbate for the gratification you want if a decent guy is not available. But don't go looking for and settling for just any guy simply for a fuck. That's not worth it.

    -Jeffrey
     
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