A question for everyone out there

I am just looking to get people's opinions about weed and a relationship. My boyfriend smokes weed off and on (used to a lot more earlier on in the relationship). It don't bother me at all, Actually i usually roll it for him cause i can do it better LoL ...... But i rairly smoke it myself. I used to a lot when i was younger but now it is only once in a blue moon thing. Like i said i have no problems with it, I just think that eventually he will want someone to smoke with him and get tired of me not smoking it.

What are your guys ideas?? ..... What would you feel like or think if you were in either side of it ??

 

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It has to do with the philosophy of baked beans.

 

No two people in any relationship do exactly the same things, you should be fine so long as you don't isolate him or whatever.

 

I do not think he will care if you choose not to smoke. And if for some reason he pressures you to smoke, hes not a good boyfriend. But my girlfriend also smokes, so perhaps I am not the best judge.

 

He'll probably get bored with weed long before he gets bored with you. If it becomes an issue, forget him - anyone who would get "tired" of someone for not smoking weed with them doesn't deserve to be in a relationship with anything but a bong anyway.

 

I generally like to date someone that smokes as much weed as I do, because I don't want anyone looking down their nose at me for smoking.

That is the only reason I prefer to date someone that smokes. So if you're cool with it, I don't see why your man wouldn't be cool with you not smoking.

 

don't worry.. like every marijuana smoker he will eventually move on to crack....

 

I think he would just be glad that you are ok with him doing it, thats the way i would be towards my girl

 

Don't try and change him.

 

Someone once told me that weed always gets in the way of relationships if only one member smokes.. After my long term relationship I say that that statement is only half true. My girlfriend never smoked before me.. then she did it a few times with me, she loved it.. but then her parents found out and it all went to shit and she never did it again. There were occasions where she would ask if I would ever stop, yada yada.. and yes sometimes it caused drama.. but the fact is we loved each other and we both did our own things, she drank, I smoked, so we both accepted our habits and that was that. There were times I would have absolutely loved to get high with her, because to be honest those times were amazingly good fun, but I never pressured her into it because I valued her opinions.. so if your boyfriend is someone to leave you simply on the basis that you don't smoke, well you should be looking for a new boyfriend.