tell my girlfriend?

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  1. originallymasked

    originallymasked Member

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    Should i tell my girlfriend i smoke weed? I don't really see why theres a need for her to know, yet i kind of want to tell her? i dunno

    I know she doesn't smoke weed, and she thinks it's discusting (shes very anti-drugs). she doesn't know i've smoked weed or done any other drugs, but i'm sure if i told her she wouldn't break up with me, she might think a little differently about me for a while, but thats it...

    But, just wanted to hear your guys (and girls) opinions, is it wrong if i don't tell her even if it doesn't effect the relationship at all? and is there even a point in telling her if it'll only make her upset?
     
  2. ganjabomber

    ganjabomber Senior Member

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  3. originallymasked

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  5. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    why do you feel the need to hide things from your gf?
     
  6. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    ^^ exactly joker.


    and lieing or hiding things from her isnt going to get you anywhere.
     
  7. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    so dont tell her because when you tell her she gonna flip because youve been lying. might as well prolong it and then use it to break things off
     
  8. deleted

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    Just what I wanna tell a girl, "I share my lips on pipes with boys".. haha.
     
  9. originallymasked

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    I wouldn't consider it lying though, but she's never even asked about it, we've never even really talked about it much ever, so i just never brought it up that i do... plus, we're only 17, so its not like we live with each other or anything... so its not like i ever do it around her haha
     
  10. eggsprog

    eggsprog anti gang marriage HipForums Supporter

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    I'd you feel like you probably should, then you probably should.
     
  11. O.W.L

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    don't hide anything....shes going to fly off the handle though because you were hiding it. be prepared.
     
  12. PurpByThePound

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    just don't. she'll tell you to stop smoking weed - you'll do it. your friends will think you're a candy ass. you'll break up with her, smoke weed with your friends and be like 'why'd i ever give a fuck about that bitch over this weed?' ...i mean - you're 17


    or do what people say and see if she doesn't let the shit hit the fan
     
  13. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    I say tell her and if she doesnt like it then tough shit its not like its a serious relationship.
    Tell her that if she likes it then cool but if not then oh well and then find a cool girl that smokes and you can enjoy it together..
     
  14. BuryMeInSmoke

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    If you know she's anti-weed, it won't go well with her. but if the relationship isn't that serious then just don't bring it up unless she does.
     
  15. Stonerstan

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    Yes tell her.. i told mine and i found out she did too so it was all cool
    even if yours dosnt and thinks its awful then she will atleast know your honest and arent keeping secrets
    trust me man most chicks dig honesty it makes them feel really good about themselves that they can trust their guy..

    just break it to her easy like
    if she freaks out and leaves then you two werent meant to be in the
    first place.you need to have a chick who accepts you for who you are!
     
  16. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    :devil: c'moooon
     
  17. originallymasked

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    But the thing is, it kind of is a serious relationship, even though we only are 17... I've known her for about 7 years now! and we've been going out for a year, she's pretty much my best friend and girlfriend, and i don't even think she'll get mad about the weed, i've never even seen her mad before... it's just, i don't want her thinking differently about me because of weed, this is why i'm hesitant about telling her
     
  18. funktastic

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    you shouldnt directly go to her and tell her...

    i mean, if she ever reaches the subject, you shouldnt lie, so tell her...

    but spontaneously going and telling her is ... just weird...

    if she asks, tell, if she doesnt, why bother? dont feel like your hiding anything... she just never asked about it
     
  19. originallymasked

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    yes but, in the past i may have made it seem as if i don't smoke weed, like she never actually directly asked me, but we've talked about it, because she knows some of my friends do, and when i've been telling her stories about being at my friends house, i'd mention some people were high, but i would leave out the fact that i was aswell haha, so i kind of made it sound as if i don't smoke weed to her, but i never directly said i did or didn't
     
  20. funktastic

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    but how did she react when you tell her that you were with people that were high?

    if she didnt care about it, you can always go and offer her some... youre probably going to end up both of you high, it shouldnt be a problem for her if you guys know each other so long and are like best friends

    but if shes really that antidrugs and didnt seem to like that your friends were high, well than id say... you tell her, but be smooth dont feel like your making the revelation of the century
     

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