She won't go down on me!?!

I know I shouldn't pressure her and i'm not but I can't help but want oral sex. We have sex almost every day when time doesn't interfere with our private time period since she and I are pretty busy at the moment. I finger her every time we have sex or fool around but I get nothing in return. I've hinted by pushing her head down but nothing. any advice?

Again, not trying to pressure her, but I need something in return. I do my half, she should technically do hers.

 

I dont want you to think I'm crazy or anything, and this might sound completely insane, far fetched, and unorthodox, but have you considered... talking to her about it?

 

I once met a woman who complained that her husband wouldn't give her oral. My suggestion was to have her give him oral, but align herself so that her private parts were in position to get reciprocal treatment. Next time I saw her she said that 69 was their favorite position.

By the way, I notice you only say you finger her. You give her oral, don't you?

 

Very good point your highness

 

you get nothing in return? what about a wet vagina to put your dick in?

 

It could lots of reasons.
Do you wash regularly? Trim regularly?
It might be fine to have with sex but maybe the odour is what gets to her. Maybe she's shy, and doesn't know how. Maybe she absolutely hates the fact of doing it, and doesn't want anything to do with it.
You can try talking to her and asking why, I mean you have a right. You do foreplay for her, so asking wouldn't be to unfair of a question to put on her. If you don't want to ask, don't give her any foreplay anymore and see what happens.
If she says something, just be say you thought it was a tad unfair that you weren't getting any, so you're making it equal.

 

I was just about to ask that question myself........


And another don't push her head there if she doesn't want to...... you will make her shut everything that way.


Have you asked her why? Some chicks just aren't into it and nothing u do will make them change their mind.

 

The biggest problem I see is that instead of bringing it up with the one person who can solve your problem, you decided to ask strangers on the internet who don't truly know anything about your situation and really can't help you.

Also, I as well couldn't help notice that you specifically said you finger her, while not mentioning that you give HER oral. Do you?

 

pay her

 

maybe the mere thought of sucking your dick makes her vomit ?

 

This site is meant for advice isn't it?

 

I don't forcefully push her, but it's a hint hint. I read to do that on a couple of other sites and of course the advice was given to women. Women are oh so fragile and should push men to give oral but a man shouldn't do the same.

 

I was with a female once for a while and I kept thinking when is this bitch gonna go down on me.. She did just one night out the blue. I didnt ask or anything.

 

Lol women aren't fragile.

And you never answered the question I asked and many others, do you give her oral? You said you finger her but that was it.

Maybe if you don't give oral she doesn't either

 

Dude, you only need to do one thing: withhold spending until she goes down on you. Until she goes down on you, she won't get the goods from you. The holidays are coming, so the silent gift of nothing will scream, Suck my cock, bitch! No flowers, no birthday presents, no weekend getaways, nothing. She pays for them on her own until she starts sucking. Once you succeed, you can start being generous again.

 

Hah the second any guy pushes my head down I vow to myself never to suck his cock.

 

How about no? she isn't materialistic and because of that it makes me want to be more thoughtful in the gifts I get her cause she's not a picky,ungrateful bitch. I don't think lack of oral calls for me acting like a bitch

 

Kick Her To The Kerb, And Get Yourself Better One....

Problem Solved...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

Do you give her oral

 

You say she's not materialistic, but then you talk about the gifts you give her?

I doubt financially its an even partnership.

The oral thing, its probably more indirect than you think. She thinks if she gives you too much of the fun stuff you'll get lazy and not try as hard, or just get bored with her too quickly and end up dumping her.

Its not about being scheming or manipulative its about being neurotic and insecure, She can be a really nice girl and still get this stuff in her head, this kind of stuff actually gets fed into her head by other chics, or from experience with older and wiser straight guys who will be more direct "Babe, you want me to buy you pretty things, well then you know what to do" so nothing really to do with you.

Or it could be you wont keep buying her gifts