I have not given my boyfriend oral sex but I am wanting to. I have read a couple of online guides such as the one on lolwut and I also watch porn but I sort of want firsthand advice please! The basics I have down are: -no teeth or biting(unless otherwise specified by him) -lots of saliva -use both hands as well as your mouth and tongue -pay attention to his whole package, not just the head -use hands to give him a handjob while you use your mouth to suck and tongue to lick/flick. like mouth goes up hands go up, same for going down I'm really nervous about being terrible and ruining the whole mood and experience. I'm a virgin but he isn't. I really really want to give him oral especially since he goes down on me and fingers me all of the time. He knows i'm inexperienced so of course he'll help me along the way but I don't want to ruin the whole experience by being completely lost. Advice?? Is it ok to ask him to show me what he likes or to guide me through it? stupid question, how will i know when to speed up or increase suction???
Heres a thought, just make those the defacto goals untill he tells you to stop. Oh, and dont use your teeth, we dont like teeth on our Equipment usually. Make sure to run your tounge around on his nuts now and then while your at it.
I don't mean to be rude, but this doesn't really help me...I just need the basics. We'll never get to licking his 'nuts' if the rest doesn't go so well.
From what I've heard there is no such thing as a bad blow job. And honestly the best advice I can give you practice practice and more practice. I always practice lol:devil:
I think so, you have to like doing it as well, I mean I love it so. I think if you are into he will enjoy.
Come on, FEEL it... what can be better than sucking the dick of your beloved one? It's such a tasty lollipop! Just enjoy and don't worry what and how to do next. Don't be tense, relax..just put his dick into your mouth and that's it..you'll feel what to do.
oh yeah, sometimes i go so crazy that even BITE my sweetie husband, but he loves it because I really love it crazy, just do it passionately, you should show him that you love his dick. I want to say that no basics will help if you don't feel it yourself!
You already know the basics apparently,,, The only part you seem to be confused on is the speed / suction in which case just increase both untill he tells you to do otherweise,,, a good default approach imho. And again, nut nibbling, I cant stess that enough.
Use your tongue a lot - lick his penis like it is an ice cream cone - curl your tongue around the coronal ridge at the back of the glans, and the groove behind it, and up and down the rapte (the line on the underside of the the shaft), and tickle his frenulum (the stringy thing in the "inverted v" on the underside of the glans with your tongue. Learn to insert his entire penis into your mouth without gagging. Suck each of his testicles gently into your mouth. Lick the area between his testicles and his anus. Go slowly...
