ok so it all started at work, I met this girl, and I thought she was nice, but never liked her obviously because I didnt even know her well.... But then I started to get to know her, and shes giving me hints that she likes me, she also told me a few times how much she loves me, and she even said she wants me in her future, she wants her family to meet me.... I havent fully come out yet and havent told her how I feel until yesterday,also tries to really make me jealous, by saying she likes this guy, to see my reaction, I think she is gay or bi, because her friends are all gay, and also she sometimes brings topics about it up.... I would have never had expressed myself like this, but I love her sooo much I cant help it, I cry everyday because I am so serious about her, I feel that if i call her too much I might look abit desperate so I dont call her even though i want to...... it was really hard, but I tried to talk to her on the phone to tell her how i feel, but the words wernt coming out, so I said forget it, she insisted that i tell her or she wont close the phone, then she said if you tell me we can start from now, i didnt get that...... so i said i cant, ill talk to you later, then later on I text her telling her how i feel, and there was no response, then she called me the next morning like nothing happend, and shes calling me more often, since I told her...... I feel like im being was too obsessive to her, this is the first time I have loved someone so much in my life like this, and its really hurting me, Im not sure if she loves me back the way I feel about her...... she asks me to do things for her, and she does things for me, and she tells me really personal stuff, she also said she really wants to move out with me, and thats her dream.... Do you think she loves me back, or she is not serious??
She seems like a player... But that's probably because she's confused about her orientation. From what you said I think she likes you but she's still not sure. What I would do is: I would call her, go somewhere quiet so you can talk and tell her how you feel. Than, ask her if she can be precise about how she feels about you. And let her know that this is the one and only time you'll ask her that. That way she'd know that she can't fool you around. But that is just my opinion..
I would say to talk to her more, and even hang out. Go out for coffee. Stay in and watch movies. Talk to her, but little by little. You don't want to overwhelm her or jump into anything to fast. Keep in mind that if it's meant to be then it will happen. Follow your instincts. Ask yourself how you think she feels. Honesty is the way to go, tell her how you feel... Ask her how she feels. As for moving in together... I would wait on that, see what happens. Make sure she is serious and not playing you. Don't do or say anything you're uncomfortable with. I hope that helps.. :/ good luck girly. I know how you're feeling.. One way or another it will get better.
