Ever dated a girl who wasn't interested in dating women in the first place? I ask this because you see on TV gay men joke about chasing after the straight ones because they'll eventually "come around". I was just wondering if that has actually ever happened in real life with lesbians. Where a woman who despite being straight, ended up in a same sex relationship due to unreal chemistry or some other off the charts factor. I ask this mainly because all of the girls I seem to fall for are straight. I've never bothered trying to date them. I feel that's disrespectful. I just... gah. It annoys me how I can treat them so much better than their boyfriends ever could. I would absolutely worship some of these women. But that is very unlikely to ever happen. I guess I already know my answer. I'm just hoping to hear something different
I did once, and never again. This woman asked me to meet her at Starbucks after months of becoming best friends, and told me I made her wonder what it was like. I was freshly "out" and didn't really understand what was safe or even what safe meant. I was like a science experiment. At first I was flattered, whatever, but slowly came to see that even though, yes, I treated her like a queen, her heart wanted that guy that treated her like shit. Makes you wanna grab her by her hair and force her to have some sense.. but it doesn't work like that. Everyone is entitled to their preference. Leave the straight girls ALONE!
I had dated all guys before my girlfriend. And I never thought od be with a girl and we've been haily togrther for two years. I did have an interest before in hooking up with a girl but never being with one till now.
