I am very new to anal play. I have a few suction cup realistic dildos. I started using them on my fiance at her request, but then she was curious about using a strapon on me. It was fun. But now I love to masturbate with the toys on my own. I don't really consider myself bi-sexual because the thought of a 'real man' isn't a turn on at all, just the 'tool' for some reason. I have never had this problem in the past. I usually attach the suction cup to a wooden chair to ride while I watch 'movies'. My problem of late is that it seems that everytime I do it, my toys, shall we use the term, get 'Dirty'. It's not hot to smell or see feces on your toys. Is this common? Is it impossible for me to do it like I used to? What are the rules for when to anal play? After bowel movement? Before? Do I need to buy a douche everytime I want to do it? Has anyone had this problem or am I disgusting? I really want to give up on it, but it feels so good having an orgasm while its in me. I always shower and wash myself really good before hand.
If I ever stick toys in my ass. It usually after, Ive flushed my hole out with gallons of water.. Although. Anal secretions will occur. This cant really be prevented because your asshole/colon is self lubricating. Not like a vagina , but some Vjays are not as wet as other. These anal secretions usually have very little fecal matter with them. But its an enzyme that while fluid one minute will dry another/ thus hardening on the toy of choice. After inspecting a toy thats been dried out. This secretion is scaly like, clear -to semi clear in color.. It should never be red from blood. \If it is. You should stop playing around so hard. Really sticking something in your ass the size of a real cock. While full of fecal matter is very dangerous to your bodies over all health. Your pushing Dirty material that the body is trying to flush out, back in. This can cause kidney problems, back pain, cold like symptoms, nausea, gas and other internal problems..
If I know I'm having a night of Anal play with hubby, I clean myself. I will use a douche and clean out with water lots and then know I'm clean as I can be.
never bled before, the toy I like the best is 6.5" and not too thick. I only insert about half-2/3rds. This has only happened 2-3 times to me, it was just consistent the last 2-3 times. When me an my girl played it was OK, thankfully. Whats the best way to 'flush' your self out? Besides buying a douche because thats extra expense I dont need.
a shower attachment where you can remove the head, and inset hose into rectum. http://i00.i.aliimg.com/photo/v0/396227624/PVC_Sliver_shiny_shower_hose.jpg
just be extra clean before doing it. Purchase a anal douche because this are the safest way to get clean and then go pleasure yourself afterwards..you can find affordable douches online.
Have a poo first, maybe a couple of hours beforehand, and shower. I agree with the person who said use a shower with a remavable head so you can flush it out.
