Low Sex Drive and Young

My girlfriend and I are a young couple but she seems to have very little to no sex drive. An instance of this is her and I had sex in the first week of August and we were making out around the first weekend of September with no sex in between and I wanted to have sex and she stopped and actually asked me "why are you so sex crazed?". I was quite upset because we're young and it had been a month. We also spend a lot of time apart because I'm away at college and I wish she would randomly send me dirty texts or some pictures but she seems to have no desire in doing so. I asked for one the other night and she said "we'll see" but did end up sending me one but saying that took the fun out of it. Things shouldn't be this low sexually in my opinion any suggestions???

 

has she ever had sex before? maybe she's scared.

 

I was her first and we've been together for a few years but only had sex for the first time together in 2010 and have only had sex a handful of times since then. Maybe around 4 times total and I'm very attracted to her and crave more but she always gets upset and treats me like I'm a sex hound and that doesn't seem right for as young as we are.

 

so at what age does it become appropriate to scold someone for getting horny once every 3 months?

 

did you seem to enjoy having sex with you? maybe she hates it or it hurts... ?

 

She does enjoy it thankfully I'm not ignorant when it comes to sex and know when she isn't having a good time but I just don't understand how once every couple months is satisfying for her when I'm on the other end dying haha

 

If she doesn't have an issue more with the physical side of love making them be honest about your feelings - and together you can work it out

 

But like I said when I bring it up she just gets upset and says I always want more. I would maybe understand if I was relentlessly asking for dirty pictures and sex on a daily basis but it's every few months. But I think I am just going to have to have another talk about it.

 

She's probably too sore after all the other guys are done with her

 

Well you can't be that pro or she'd be fucking you :2thumbsup:

 

I can tell when a gal is a faking It's not about bein' a pro.

 

Maybe start from the bottom, assume you dont know shit, then work your way up. I dont say that to be mean, but any other way you'll waste your time on false assumptions.


Besides, its about you not her

 

I'm not saying that you are completely ignorant when it comes to a girl faking. But honestly, I've been with a guy for a year and faked it every time... I initially don't have much sex drive when it comes to him, but love his personality and every thing else. So I stayed with him.

It sounds to me like she doesn't FULLY enjoy it. I mean, she may enjoy it but only to a certain extent. Or she just may be strange and not have much of a sex drive period.

I suggest asking her why she always gets offensive when you ask her for these things... When she says you're sex crazed tell her your just extremely attracted to her... then ask her if the strong attraction is mutual.
Catch her off guard for a moment then the reaction will change... If she keeps coming up with defensive/offensive responses every time you ask for some then there's either something you aren't fully succeeding at in the bedroom, or she's just not a sexual girl.