If it is a man... just ask. They usually will never say no. I've been married for ages so I have never had to ask a man out, but I think that if I really wanted to be with someone, I would compliment him on something (eyes, smile, personality) and maybe say something like "I usually don't trust most men, but I feel I can trust you with my life... you want to start with my body and see how it goes?" ;D
Okay, here's the story if anyone's interested... Even though it sounds like it should be a whole new thread altogether... It was our office christmas party when I last posted. We've been flirting since I opened this thread! Via emails and things like that. He's quite a cocky bloke, but in a way he's a bit shy and awkward and he spoke a lot more confidently to me over emails rather than to my face. We went to the pub with guys from work last wednesday and we had a nice hug goodbye, and he said I smelt "AMAZING", so i thought 'I'm in...' At the Xmas party, he passed a comment about my boobs saying they were nice (I was wearing a low cut dress). My plan was to get him to come home with me that night as I had a free house. But I got too drunk and was flirting around and I hardly saw him and when I did we didn't even speak! By around eleven we were all getting ready to leave and I saw him talking to another girl with even bigger boobs Long story short, I got off with this other guy right in front of him just to make him jel and to show him I can get guys. But it backfired. He left with the other girl but I followed them and basically convinced him to leave me with me instead in front of her! We kissed and he even let me rub his cock through his trousers and things but then he had to go and we couldn't make it back to mine. I'm over it, but he's acting funny around me at work and we don't even talk anymore. It makes me sad. I just wanted to bang but now it feels like we aren't even mates anymore! And I'm stuck lool.
does getting off mean the same thing to you as it does to me? because if it does, that's a really weird thing to do at an office party, or any public place for that matter... he knows damn well you can get guys; you're a girl and that's really pretty much all it takes. slutting around in front of him is just a turn off and confusing as hell.
Well getting off means kissing basically. That's it, nothing more. And yes, i understand now that what I did was a bit slutty, but he still came with me after, which is what confuses me!