Help, attracted to girls physically not emotionally - bi?

Hi,
I'm a female, mid twenties. I have always dated men, but secretly fantasize about women (only other very feminine women). I think men are very attractive and I connect with men friends or relationships extremely easily. I don't generally like many women's personalities, which makes me think I would never be interested in a serious relationship with a woman.
Could I be bi without the emotional connection to a woman? I enjoy receiving oral sex a lot, I also enjoy giving bjs. I really don't like penetration, I've never orgasmed from penetration alone and I find it somewhat pointless. I never look at male porn sites, but I really like looking at female sites. I like looking at other women's breasts mostly.
I am very feminine looking and in the past a lesbian I knew was really surprised that I had had a sexual encounter with a female (drunken) in the past. I'm currently in a LTR with a man who I love very much. He knows how I've been feeling and has been very supportive. I'm really confused...any advice?

 

It sounds to me like you're uncomfortable with the idea of gettign physical with somebody for whom you feel no emotional attraction.

Well, in that case - don't do it!

You're in a long term relationship with somebody to whom you feel both a physical and an emotional attraction. Well trust me, hun, that's about as good as it gets. Hold on to what you've got and treasure it!

By all means acknowledge your physical attraction to other women's bodies. Be open with him about it. It could even be something you share. A little nudge and a nod and a comment like "she's got a lovely body, hasn't she?" can do no harm, and may indeed help to draw you closer to one another.

Hugs,

Becky

 

Ugh just find a girl and see if u like it

 

It is awesome that your guy is embracing what you are feeling. I believe that tends to make things a little easier for you and your emotions. I posted a question earlier "Are You Really Ready" and would love to keep the chat open between you and I. I had feelings many years ago for females, but did not act on them at the time....it is totally different now and I am married. I love men always have but I cannot deny what is happening to me now and I am READY to explore this side of me, so I'm going to answer my own question.......Hell Yes i Am REALLY READY