Any lady here who took sometime with their husbands to enjoy anal sex?

Just wondering if my theory of finding out how one can bring this act to be something special between a man and a woman....in my fantasy, I fuck my wife in the ass like I am fucking her in her pussy, pounding!...and she going bananas with pleasure and multiple orgasms where she squirts and cum hard all while my tool is in her ass...anyhow, she knows it, but of course, is a journey to get there...just wanted to find out if others have gone through something like this and what worked?

Thanks,

 

Patience, persistence, and sensitivity. It's worth it to make that fantasy a reality

 

What works with my wife,,AMBUSH!!

Well,,actually,,not much.

 

Wise words.

It takes time and trust, biggest thing tho she has to want it. If she ants it she will be more relaxed and enjoy it more.

And remember not all positions are good for cumming with Anal some work you ad not for me!

 

She is on board but recently...she comes from a very conservative family so it has been difficult yet incredible how after 20 years, we are really exploring now...I'll keep it up and let you know....so positions and patients....but I guess, she needs to communicate too..mmmm...anything else?, any experience?

 

Try spooning to start best way and lots of lube

 

Dude, the solution is simple.

1. Buy her something nice but not cheap, something in the range of $250-$500. She will like it.
2. Suggest she will get much more if she opens her asshole for you.
3. Once she puts out anally, her rewards should be commensurate to her performance.

If she does the dirty ass to mouth (i.e., she sucks her own shit off your cock), she will be very happy to see her new Lexus in the garage, and you will be certain to get more of it in the future. Other rewards to consider are sable fur coat, jewelry, vacation in Paris, etc..

If she is not cooperative, I suggest you withhold spending until she gives in. If she refuses, file for divorce immediately. Better to leave than to spend the rest of your life being deprived of what you want, and shame on you for marrying her in the first place.

 

How could Freud have missed the anal-monetary connection?!

 

If I were to put a butt plug on my wife's ass often (not leading to anal sex) but just putting it there often when we make love, I think, her brain will become more use to relax the anus, then when the weekend arrives (I only have anal on Saturday or Sunday mornings) only once a week and sometimes is better than others, but she always feel some pressure and or pain, so because at the end of the day she is very tight in her ass, I rather go in the morning when her ass is totally relax from a night of sleeping...so my theory, if I use a butt plug on her 2 or 3 times a week, every Saturday morning, it should feel a bit lose and for her a bit better...the more she get use to fell something in her ass, the easier it will become for her to receive me completely...now, is this theory right?, anybody has ever tried it?......just want to work at someday find a way to get her to really relax and expand her asshole, so I can enjoy it to the fullest.....and only this will happen if she also enjoys herself....to me is very important that my wife enjoys the act...that is the reason i want to find a way or give me a real chance to get there.....any suggestions, comments?

 

Sounds like you have the right ideas. Keep working at it.

 

Thanks....