Hey guys, 24 year old man here, all my life I have had crushes here and there on girls, but could never become sexually attracted to them, and trust me I tried! I was, however, sexually attracted to men. About a year ago I accepted I was gay and came out to family and friends. I started dating and hooking up and it was fantastic. Over the past two months, however, I have slowly become obsessed with girls. It started out as a nagging thing here and then, but this past week it has been ridiculous. All I think about is girls and getting with them, their breasts, sex, their vaginas, etc. I don't know how much is TMI for these boards, but they have been driving me absolutely crazy. I almost always hear stories about men who started out straight and then became bi, and never the other way around. In fact, before these past few months I wasn't even sure I believed in bisexuality. Did anybody start gay and then start obsessing about women? Also, how did you (or how do you recommend I) start getting experience with girls? I really, really, really want to start hooking up, but a 24 year old "virgin" (because I've only had sex with men) is not exactly a selling point... Also, if this continues, I'm extremely nervous about the reverse "coming out". I am worried that everybody will view this as me going back into the closet. I am still going to give it several more months and at least wait until I have sex, just to make sure I'm not "bicurious".
Oh, and for what its worth, the first and only time I had sex with a female so far (which was about 4 years ago) she said it was the best sex shed ever had... so I don't think you need to worry lol, they're easier to please than you might think ** Sent from my phone using Tapatalk :]
skinny.jeans, just out of curiosity, when did you come out and when did bi feelings start to surface? I came out at 22, and now at 24 I've started to be ridiculously turned on by girls, although in the last 24 hours I've been more into guys. It seems to go in waves, and the last week or so was all about girls.
I was actively a bi dude for some ten years. I started as being gay, loved it and all... There was this birthday party, and I was hoping to score. All the cute guys were either totally str8, taken or not interested. Being pretty horny, I hooked up with a cute girl and took her home. It was sex and it was good. I did not worry too much. She liked it, and we kept seeing each other for a while. Once the next girl I found pretty showed some interest, I went for it without having a second thought. My score board soon started looking very impressive. I was simply an opportunist. An opportunity showed up and went for it. No regrets. I never made any false promises. Never saw myself getting married and all. It was just good, plain fun. KD
i remembered that there are some guys for whom their sexuality fluctuates all throughout their life. i haven't actually met anyone like that in person but i've heard about guys like that. they start out liking guys, for example, and it goes on for good 10 years. and then it switches and just like that they start liking girls, and are no longer interested in guys. then that goes on for another 10 years or so and then it switches back again. and so forth. i don't really know what to make of this, and for me it seems quite weird, because my own sexuality has always been a constant thing. so i don't really know how it can switch like that.
