“I don’t think that your legitimate”, said some man I’d been flirting with (obviously badly) on an adult website. This is not the first time that people have asked: is ‘that a photo of you, really or are you really a man?’ It just makes my testosterone levels surge (only joking). It maybe purely snooping but as other women I’ve spoken have had the same I’d like to ask why? Is it a compliment, is it an accusation, does it really matter? What I guess for me that does matter is what is behind the question. Jill (and Harriet)
both a compliment and an accusation lots of people do fake, so it's not surprising take it as a compliment. it means "you're too good to be true" https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=NGFToiLtXro
